"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why does this happen?

someperson12

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Hi,
I'm curious on why this would happen for seemingly no reason.
I met this girl in class a couple months ago and we got along pretty well. She's a nice funny and everything as well as lets me get away with alot thing

For no apparent reason though, the second semester starts and shes ice cold. Now, our conversations last about two words or so (hi, well...yah) and even saying "hi"....its seems more out of politeness than out of joy.
It's like we hardly know each other (you have more to talk to with your teachers even). Not that i wanna go after her (i'm too busy anyways.
But im curious could she like me or what. I'm pretty sure i didn't do anything i shouldnt have.
She just shy all of a sudden or what could happen?

She also has other guy friends tho..............and she's still the sagm way all along.
 

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whats she like to the other guys? if shes the same, its nothing to do with you. Either way, just leave her alone for a while. shell warm up to you or she wont. you cant control it.
 

someperson12

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well not really, she only that way to me for some reason. I have no clue why.
 
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