"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why does this happen?

PeasantPlayer

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This happens a lot and I don't know why, I mean maybe its no big deal and looking and it wrong. Pretty much me and 2 of my boys go out to hit up a bar see what's going down, maybe some cute chicks. We at the bar drinking there is some HB4:yes: they see us start whispering to their girls and based on my intuition these are the type of slores we could get a cheap motel and run a train:crazy: :yes:

3 guys 3 girls....well pretty much one girl is eyeballing my friend. Then we he leaves to go back to the bathroom she is eyeballing me. My friends are taking to long to initiate, so I say something stupid to one of the girls and bam we are introduced, my friend walks over and is talking to them, i stay back to look for something better keep my options open, I start flirting with this milf at the bar who had a white knight by her, she ignored him and was chatting me and my friend up.


Anyway the girl was was initially eyeballing my friend, looks over her shoulder and starts giving me those looks, seductive then she waves for me to come over. So me and my other friend go over I am standing in the back of them and she keeps looking at me, smirking. After bar we go out to eat at a Chinese place, i sit across here and she continues looking at me with that seductive smirk and those **** me eyes.

This seems to happen to me all to often but why? Girls with boyfriends, girls we meet, its like they like one of my friends, but throw a side eye to me and start slightly ignoring the person they initially "liked" seeking in as many looks as they can flirting, I love it, but why they act like they don't want to choose me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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G_Govan

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You were always the main target.

I see this all the time. They're trying to get your attention by making it obvious to you that they're checking out your friend, it's to create a bit of jealousy in you.

They hope you become "competitive" and start making moves.

Some of them do things with the guys they're with to get a rise out of you if you aren't paying them enough attention. One chick made sure to wait and time a kiss with her bf at the entrance of a coffee shop right as I was trying to leave (she was trying to get my attention while standing in line). Had another chick look back at me in line and then grab her bf's a-- (different day).

I never start out looking directly at a chick I want to check out (unless I'm walking by heading in another direction), I'll use peripheral vision and glance over when they aren't looking (to seem aloof). I play this game all the time, especially when I don't plan to approach.

You can get chicks to show their hand this way a lot of the time.
 

PeasantPlayer

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I don't compete for grade d *****s at a club or bar. And I sure as hell don't get jealous or mad when they do. When I was younger I did, but I realized I am not the jealous type and not everything is what it seems. I love when I can go out with my friends and we can game on some chicks. Like you I use peripheral vision, if I am behind them or they can't seem me looking I take time to look at their bodies as much as I can, I just love the shape or curvy women and the women who is my type. None the less its cute though....women are their childish games ha, thanks bro
 
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