I did find that site somewhat helpful. But the whole bashing thing is kinda crappy because this site (so suave) has a lot of good things to offer. They just don't agree with our methods and theories but I did pick up some valuable things while at SW101.
1) Women aren't stupid.
This is true, women as a whole aren't stupid. Women can tell if what you're doing is real or fake. Reason being, if your faking your whole game them somewhere down the road the true you will show. Its bound to happen.
2) Don't fake confidence
I've seen some articles on this site that say how to fake confidence even if you don't have it. If you don't have natural confidence then you can't fool yourself into having it. You have to do some soul seeking and find out what it is thats making you insecure. A while back it was my weight. I lost the weight and my self-esteem went up which in turn helped my confidence. Take some risks and as you take those risks your confidence will go up after you overcome challenges and obstacles. But don't try and fool yourself into thinking your confident when your not.
3) If a woman is attracted to you, you're good to go.
When a woman first meets you and looks you over. She starts analyzing you and all that jazz. If she's interested in your and sees the potential of having you as more than a friend, you're set. Think about it, did our fathers and such have the DJ center or SS when they were growing up? No, they didn't. What did they do? They just led their lives and treated their girls right. Thats all you need, you don't need to use techniques and such. You just go about your business showing your girl a good time and possessed qualities that the women they ended up with were looking for. If that interest is lost then theres a quality about you that didn't match what she is looking for. We don't look for techniques and such in other people. We look for qualities, values, and characteristics which make them a person that we would like to be with. Its simple but so true.
Think about that guy you know, that likes star trek, video games, and most people would call a loser (not that he is one, so don't flame me for this.. just giving an example.) He ends up with a girl. Does he use DJ techniques? Most likely not. But why does he get a girl? Maybe he has some kind of ambition. Maybe he has a sense of self. Maybe he makes her laugh. Whatever! Something about him attracts that girl, and even if he didnt use any dj techniques something about his character will eventually get him that girl. Lesson is, that when you get past all techniques and methods its your true self that will get the girl. Its the true you that will be happy with yourself and that will translate into success in dating and in life.
As a whole, the SW101 site is a good read for a few minutes. But you should take the advice from any site or person as a grain of salt. If you follow everything by the book and don't do things that your gut tells you then as a whole you're being fake. You're being someone you arent. You have to take the advice and adapt it into your life and help it make you a better person and become better at what you do. For a second I was questioning the validity of sosuave after reading SW101. But after careful examination, this site has helped me. Because of this site I was able to get over a relationship that ended badly. I was able to change my outlook on women and the whole way I go about dealing with women. I even got a girl to ask ME out. (kinda messed up on that one but I must have done sumthin right in the beginning to get her interested and keep her interested up to a certain point.) This site is great, but you have to make your own conclusion of what advice to take and what not to take. Look at what is presented to you, ask yourself if it makes sense and if its what you would do. If its advice you feel like following go for it. If you feel it isn't for you then pass. You just have to stay true to yourself.
