Why does she talk to me now?

[Paintballguy]

I was once trying to get with that I'm just gonna call HB 1. I ended up actually getting ****blocked from her and just kindof stopped talking to her because I had another target. Anyways, so I meet this other girl I will call HB 2. I happen to be talking to HB 1 yesterday and I mentioned that I met this other girl.

Now all of the sudden she talks to me a lot more and seems more open on her thoughts and feels.

What do you think caused this?

-edit: I forgot to add HB 1 was not really talking to me for awhile. When I called she would be magically busy and have to go. So naturally, I blew her off and moved on.

 

[evolvingnerd]

they want what they can't have
they want what others have
ur more of a challenge now

something like that

 

[Ice Cold]

LOL

For some time I thought that HB1 is the 1 to 10 rating scale

Then u graduated to HB2

I forgot to add HB 1 was not really talking to me for awhile. When I called she would be magically busy and have to go. So naturally, I blew her off and moved on.

I'd try hugging her and going for the titties. Why blow her off if she's talking to you?

People are EXTREMELY insecure.

 

[Dukester]

you're a challenge now. she has competition. if she wants you, then she will try to grab your attention more, and talk to you more.

you cant give into all this attention, just continue to go out w/ both of them. then choose which you think will make the best g/f. ask one of them out, and make sure you let the other one know.

use this jealousy to your advantage....

 

[chicksrock]

you've got jealousy, competition and social proof going to the max!

The good thing about social proof is both parties benefit! HB1 knows you hangout with HB2 and is jealous. HB2 has seen you with HB1 and is jealous.

WIN WIN WIN!

social proof rocks

 

[deniro]

These chicks dont know what they want,
you got to strike while the iron is hot
ask her out !
if she says no,say Your lose as well as mine

 

[Paintballguy]

Its kindof funny too because she keeps asking me about the new girl. So yea, I definately think there is some jealousy going on.

 

[squirrels]

When you approached her first, she weighed and measured you and found you lacking. She thought, "This guy doesn't have what it takes to satisfy me."

But then you managed to mack girl #2 so easily, she's thinking to herself, "Wait a minute...did I miss something? Did I just pass up a REAL man??"

I wouldn't go back to girl #1 at this point. If you do, you're essentially letting her know she can "call you back" any time she wants and you'll come running. It's really HER loss that she didn't recognize what she had and now taht she botched it and you're with girl #2 (and there may even be a #3 and #4 if you're good ), she's crying No Fair and trying to win your attention back.

 

[DJ_Dork]

why would you want to be with a girl whose interest was raised by "competition" or "jealousy" , what paintballguy did was smart.

what the hell is "challenge" , more like the uglier girl finally saw value in you but DOES SHE WANT YOU? probably not in the beginning. If she truly wants you - she'd be trying to hook up with you.. and she doesn't seem to be doing that. NEXT