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why does she make me wait so long for sex?

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i mean c'mon already ive tried everything with this women and nothing works. she says she loves me but wont sleep with me, she says its too soon. well its been 6 months and nothing. aside from her and her moms weekly meetings she doesnt get out much, they go to feminist rallies on thursdays so i know theres no guys there..

what gives?
 

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LMAO!
 

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Originally posted by georgie24
aside from her and her moms weekly meetings she doesnt get out much, they go to feminist rallies on thursdays...
She has too much respect for her body to ever let it be defiled by a man penetrating her.

End of story, find a non-basketcase to date. :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by diablo
She has too much respect for her body to ever let it be defiled by a man penetrating her. End of story, find a non-basketcase to date.

ive invested alot of time and money into her, even taxi her mom where ever she wants to go
 

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Wow, so you've gone from being a man to being her mom's chaffeur. No wonder she keeps you around and doesn't give you sex - I'd do the same in her position... She gets the best of both worlds - a guy to ferry her mom around, and someone who spends money on her without her having to put out! Genius! :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by georgie24
ive invested alot of time and money into her, even taxi her mom where ever she wants to go
:D snicker :D - Now, why should she have sex with you if you're already doing all these things for her? Dude, she's not having sex with you because it's readily apparent that you'll put up with it. She's making out like a bandit.

I'm not saying that she should sleep with you but dude, do you think she should sleep with you just because you've done things for her? Is that all you've got?
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Now, why should she have sex with you if you're already doing all these things for her? Dude, she's not having sex with you because it's readily apparent that you'll put up with it. She's making out like a bandit.
Copycat. :eek:
 

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you guys are right! i have an idea, this thursday's meet its supose to be huge b/cause its the first of the year and they need to do a fresh head count, how do i get out of the house so i dont have to bring them and her 2 friends?

help me lie this once guys!!:(
 

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Methinks I doth smell a bullshyte post but,..


Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
-- Proverb

Now, go write "I will not wait for sex" 500 times on a sheet of notebook paper. Then call this girl and tell her you've decided she is not worth the wait. NEXT her and her mother.
 

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Originally posted by georgie24
how do i get out of the house so i dont have to bring them and her 2 friends?

help me lie this once guys!!:(
You were going to bring her, her mom, and her two friends to a feminist rally that you couldn't even stay at? Now you want us to help you make up a reason why you can't be their little *****? I hate to say that anybody is "beyond hope", but you're as close a case as I've ever seen. Tell her if she doesn't put out, then you're out. But you won't, I already know. You'll be too busy dropping them off and picking them up from the rally...
 

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Originally posted by georgie24
i mean c'mon already ive tried everything with this women and nothing works. she says she loves me but wont sleep with me, she says its too soon. well its been 6 months and nothing. aside from her and her moms weekly meetings she doesnt get out much, they go to feminist rallies on thursdays so i know theres no guys there..

what gives?
Ditch her! Correct me if i'm wrong anyone, but i think if she really liked you, she would've let you nail her by now. Women like this are a waste!
 

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Yes,cuz Females are known to respond well to sexual pressure..lol.

This chic made you wait and she's a fem-bot. Uh-uh don't pressure cuz she'll probably dump you. And with six months of accumaled nut in you,You'll come off too desperate to pu any other women.

Isolate her,get her in the mood with whatver romantic stuff she likes and spring it on her.

Six months is way too much time to flush down the toilet.Try to get it done and if she doesn't then bounce.
 

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Realnezz, her mom and her 'group' has definitely already brainwashed her by now. No way will she let him tag that... all he is now to her is a ride for her and her mother to their feminist rallies, and an additional source of income.
 

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ok im taking tharealnezz's advice!! they usually get amped up a couple nights b4 the meet so i think it would be a bad idea to ask for intamacy b4 the meets. i think i have a better shot over the weekend no?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DUMP her and you won't need to lug any of them around anymore. You've already lost respect and control in this relationship. You taught her that she can do this to you as long as you hope to have sex with her!!
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Realnezz, her mom and her 'group' has definitely already brainwashed her by now. No way will she let him tag that... all he is now to her is a ride for her and her mother to their feminist rallies, and an additional source of income.

Maybe.

Of course that's a possibility.

But we haven't heard him tell that side of the story all the way through.
 

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ok ill see what happends after this rally
 

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sometimes investments dont pan out... so ya should just cut your losses and get the fvck outa there as soon as possible and find something else that works for ya...
 

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