Why does she keep calling

[Thane_Blackwood]

So just a while ago I got a call from my ex girl. This woman calls my house phone because she couldn't get through on my cell.(why try so hard to get a hold of me?) So we talk for 20 minutes about pointless sh*t I don't even remember. I decided to test her and see if she would meet up with me even though I wasn't going to anyway. She says she's busy and is seeing her boyfriend. Don't know why she's calling me seeing as I haven't talked to her in a month. Before that she would call all the time. Anyway at the end of the convo I'\told her what shes doing talking to me if she has a boyfriend she says, "What? I can't talk to my friend? We've know each other since we were little kids" My respose... "No we can't talk" I told her she should go on with her business and I hung up. Any thoughts on how I handled this? Also I'm wondering why was she calling so much if she never wanted to see me again? Must be a way for her to stroke her ego...

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You did the right thing. As a man we need to value our time. Time is more important than money. She is calling your because she wants an ego boost as well as a back up dude to fall back on if her current boyfriend and her aren't working. Just ignore this female.

 

[Thane_Blackwood]

Thanks man. But I also want to point out she was my first girlfriend. I didn't even try pursuing her she pursued me. Yeah I know "21 and only 1 girlfriend?" Yeah sad. I used to get girls numbers by doing absolutely nothing, but I never followed up. I'm new to the game so any advice is beneficial. But a college guy like me with nothing to his name? Yeah I think I'd have a hard time.

 

[nightcrawler]

So just a while ago I got a call from my ex girl. This woman calls my house phone because she couldn't get through on my cell.(why try so hard to get a hold of me?) So we talk for 20 minutes about pointless sh*t I don't even remember. I decided to test her and see if she would meet up with me even though I wasn't going to anyway. She says she's busy and is seeing her boyfriend. Don't know why she's calling me seeing as I haven't talked to her in a month. Before that she would call all the time. Anyway at the end of the convo I'\told her what shes doing talking to me if she has a boyfriend she says, "What? I can't talk to my friend? We've know each other since we were little kids" My respose... "No we can't talk" I told her she should go on with her business and I hung up. Any thoughts on how I handled this? Also I'm wondering why was she calling so much if she never wanted to see me again? Must be a way for her to stroke her ego...

lol

first of all think positive dude...that whole "she's talking to me cuz she wants to stroke her ego" is the train of thought that comes from someone with low self esteem

i mean really...do you see yourself as just an "ego booster"? get real dude!! don't think so negatively of yourself!

what's going on here is that she's probly having problems and/or is bored with her current bf and looking for an out...i.e. you.

she's basically handing you her vagina on a silver platter....take it if you wish