"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why does she do this after she rejects me??

MKS82

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seriously this is kind of funny. I get rejected by this girl maybe like 3 out 5 times. so after i get rejected i give her a whatever attitued. 2 times ago i said (after she rejected me) ok well hope u have fun. take care. then she immediatley come back and say well Ill just call u when i get back. Then today i asked her to go out to this thing (she replies like 2 hours later). lame excuse comes up. so i seriously say to her "thats cool. hope u have fun ill c u when i c u." Then no later then 10 seconds later "well what r u doing after the show?" so im going to reply back and say yea i dont know, Maybe ill give you a call after to see what you are doing. she rejects me a lot then she says sh*t to almost like she doesnt want me to stop talking ot her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Potbelly

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girls are like that. dont give her the attention she wants, unless she wants you to attend to banging her
 

Jariel

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Are you sure her "excuses" aren't genuine reasons?

Btw. Your response is perfect - very cool and easygoing!
 

MKS82

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i dont know they could be but seriously she has an excuse for a lot of sh*t they could be but oh well. should i seriously call her tonight after the show to see what she is diong? i told her "maybe ill call you after the show"
 

bales

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kinda sounds like she is on the fence about you and being indecisive. i'd stop asking her out for a couple of weeks then ask her out again. if she brushes you off then move on. plenty more women out there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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flexion_

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She probably doesn't like you; but, also has nothing better at the moment. Seems like a waste of time as her interest is pretty low.
 

[]D [] []V[] []D

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DUDE.... next time, tell her your comments again "yeah w.e thats cool, later".. then DONT talk to her again. Respond with yes or no answers to her questions.

Its so obvious.. you took the biscut and when you ran to her she whipped you, and you ran away. Then she layed down a biscut again and when u came to eat it she whipped you again. Cant you see that this is happening??
 
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