"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why does she do this after she rejects me??

MKS82

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seriously this is kind of funny. I get rejected by this girl maybe like 3 out 5 times. so after i get rejected i give her a whatever attitued. 2 times ago i said (after she rejected me) ok well hope u have fun. take care. then she immediatley come back and say well Ill just call u when i get back. Then today i asked her to go out to this thing (she replies like 2 hours later). lame excuse comes up. so i seriously say to her "thats cool. hope u have fun ill c u when i c u." Then no later then 10 seconds later "well what r u doing after the show?" so im going to reply back and say yea i dont know, Maybe ill give you a call after to see what you are doing. she rejects me a lot then she says sh*t to almost like she doesnt want me to stop talking ot her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Potbelly

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girls are like that. dont give her the attention she wants, unless she wants you to attend to banging her
 

Jariel

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Are you sure her "excuses" aren't genuine reasons?

Btw. Your response is perfect - very cool and easygoing!
 

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i dont know they could be but seriously she has an excuse for a lot of sh*t they could be but oh well. should i seriously call her tonight after the show to see what she is diong? i told her "maybe ill call you after the show"
 

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kinda sounds like she is on the fence about you and being indecisive. i'd stop asking her out for a couple of weeks then ask her out again. if she brushes you off then move on. plenty more women out there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She probably doesn't like you; but, also has nothing better at the moment. Seems like a waste of time as her interest is pretty low.
 

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DUDE.... next time, tell her your comments again "yeah w.e thats cool, later".. then DONT talk to her again. Respond with yes or no answers to her questions.

Its so obvious.. you took the biscut and when you ran to her she whipped you, and you ran away. Then she layed down a biscut again and when u came to eat it she whipped you again. Cant you see that this is happening??
 
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