"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why does my face turn red so often!!???!

Snap87

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Why does it?? In the cold mornings when i am outside on my way to school and little bit into school my face is clear. But through out the day my face turns and stays red. Only my nose,forehead, and middle face. Certain classes with certain lights makes my face less red, some not even red. But then other classes with THEIR lights turn my face red. This sh1t is getting very fvcking annoying because people keep saying i blush so much then say i am just shy and fvcking ****. When i bend down to get a pencil, then back up, FACE RED. When its getting hott, face turns red as an apple! What the fvck is the problem? any creams or anything that can help me??

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dirtyvibe

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Snap87 said:
Why does it?? In the cold mornings when i am outside on my way to school and little bit into school my face is clear. But through out the day my face turns and stays red. Only my nose,forehead, and middle face. Certain classes with certain lights makes my face less red, some not even red. But then other classes with THEIR lights turn my face red. This sh1t is getting very fvcking annoying because people keep saying i blush so much then say i am just shy and fvcking ****. When i bend down to get a pencil, then back up, FACE RED. When its getting hott, face turns red as an apple! What the fvck is the problem? any creams or anything that can help me??

THANKS!
youre pale to the point that blood is showing through your skin. the tops of your hands should also be turning red, check them out next time youre in the cold.
 

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Possibility - rosacea
 

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I dont think you can help it..it used to happen to me all the time and my friends always used to takes advantage of it when i just HAPPENED to be red when talking to a chic ..n theyd go "oooooo" (those ba$tards...;) )

I think i grew out of it (im 19 now and it happened when i was 16,17)
 

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Snap87 said:
Why does it?? In the cold mornings when i am outside on my way to school and little bit into school my face is clear. But through out the day my face turns and stays red. Only my nose,forehead, and middle face. Certain classes with certain lights makes my face less red, some not even red. But then other classes with THEIR lights turn my face red. This sh1t is getting very fvcking annoying because people keep saying i blush so much then say i am just shy and fvcking ****. When i bend down to get a pencil, then back up, FACE RED. When its getting hott, face turns red as an apple! What the fvck is the problem? any creams or anything that can help me??

THANKS!
I believe it is simply a large degree of shyness.

If you're bending down to pick up a pencil, that's a very self-conscious act when you're shy and it will make you blush.

It will go as you age, don't worry.

The Muscly Jerk
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It could be related to blood circulatory functions. Are you actively exercising and doing cardio throughout the week? If not, start.
 
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