why does it seem like theres no girls out there interested in me? sure, i've had a couple girlfriends in the past and a few one night stands, but im in college and the girls dont ever pay me any attention. i've been told im a decent looking (9.4 on hotornot)fellow, and i work out and i smile a lot. but in all my classes, chicks never come sit by me or strike up a conversation. i go to the gym, and theres plenty of girls there but i never get any looks or indication i should approach. if a girl sent me signs of interest, i'd reciprocate and approach her but im just not getting them. i dont understand what it is... maybe im not handsome? but i've been told i am a few times in the past. i'd like to find a girlfriend so help me please?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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