"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why does it seem like every girl is taken?

Jakeman

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It seems like all the datable girls in my school are already in LTRs. To make matters worse the ratio of hot to ugly girls in my school is horrible. What do I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ChrizZ

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Just cuz they got a bf doesn´t mean sh!t. If someone better comes along they´ll leave their bf.
 

SenorSuave

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Agreed, but I say you find women outside of school.
 

Kiko-

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I'm in the same situation. I socialize with girls out of school, it's good enough. Try it.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Just cuz they got a bf doesn´t mean sh!t. If someone better comes along they´ll leave their bf.
This is true, I almost got one who had a BF.

Note almost, she's thinking about it. I'm not waiting on her though, so I don't care if she does or she doesn't get with me frankly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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