"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Now of course, of course this is unacceptable. It shouldn't happen, it's a random girl.

But why? I mean back in the day, before womens rights, this type of stuff probably never happened. But now you see or hear more and more about this.

Do you think this dude is just angry towards women for some reason? If he is, could it have to do with how women are allowed to do what ever they want with out social repercussions?

Maybe he has dealt with a lot of rejections due to lack of understanding how women work? I mean in the world there is always a reaction, so what do you think he is reacting to?

I mean, only hurting people do hurtful things. What do you think is the source of the pain this young man is in? Where ever there is smoke, there is a fire.

But before any of you attack this guy for doing it, lots of women do this emotionally to males on a daily basis, and get away with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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there are a lot of bad people in the world.
 

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MidnightCity said:
as realistic and red pill as i am. i still find it very difficult to advocate the hitting of women even under the most extreme cases (other than self defense). since i believe men and women are NOT equal in more ways than one (including physically) im not going to take advantage of my phyiscal strength over a chick in any situation that concerns causing physical harm to them. i might shove a chick at my angriest but id find myself hard pressed to back-hand a ho
Agreed, it's not a fair fight. It's like beating up a child.
Even if you win, people are just going to view you as a pvssy.
 

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zekko said:
Agreed, it's not a fair fight. It's like beating up a child.
Even if you win, people are just going to view you as a pvssy.
Since when has any street fight ever involved fairness? Street fights by their very nature are almost always tilted. Otherwise they would have entered a ring with a referee, what we call sports today.

Fact is this kid could have done it for any number of reasons. A bet, a dare, teenage boredom, drunk/high, establishing a reputation as a teenage fvckhead, maybe he hates the girl, maybe he feels disenfranchised as a male in society and takes it out on women, who knows.

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I mean, only hurting people do hurtful things. What do you think is the source of the pain this young man is in? Where ever there is smoke, there is a fire.
Once again it is meaningless to speculate, but I don't agree with only hurting people doing hurtful things. Humans also do things just because we can.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MidnightCity said:
why not?

this kid deserves whatevers coming to him.

male oppression doesnt make a case for someone being a world class dlck. and really, how jaded can a kid of what, 15? be?

yea we go through a lot, but we deal with it and adapt. we endure. we survive.

lesser men do not. the disconnect and disillusionment breaks them. could this be an example of that? maybe in part. the kid just looks like a little psycho to me though.

as realistic and red pill as i am. i still find it very difficult to advocate the hitting of women even under the most extreme cases (other than self defense). since i believe men and women are NOT equal in more ways than one (including physically) im not going to take advantage of my phyiscal strength over a chick in any situation that concerns causing physical harm to them. i might shove a chick at my angriest but id find myself hard pressed to back-hand a ho
I wonder if its related to feminism and womens "rights". Maybe he is confused, and angry for reasons he doesn't know. What if a little information would change his perspective on things, and help him change and grow as a human being? What if he feels the world is so unfair, and he is so backed into a corner, that he doesn't know what to do, and he just wants to smash things?

Would it be better to lock him in a cage for life, or teach him the ways of the force?
 

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Tictac said:
The strong preying on the weak and the many preying on the one is for the pathetic.
Are you serious? This is not the behavior of a strong being. This is the behavior of some one who feels so weak inside, that they need to resort to behavior like this to feel like they have strength. Strong men never, ever behave this way.
 

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Where's the outrage about the video of a woman in her 20's beating a teenage boy?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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noobolgy said:
But before any of you attack this guy for doing it, lots of women do this emotionally to males on a daily basis, and get away with it.
That doesn't make either one right.

Unfortunately, in a lot of cases the male puts himself in a position where the female can hurt him. He gets emotionally caught up in her beauty before she has proven herself worthy of his affection. That's one of the reasons forums like this exist.

Also, it never ceases to amaze me in threads like this that there will be several guys who try to rationalize why it's okay to beat on women.
 

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I agree with some posts and others I don't.

Some people say you should NEVER hit a woman, some say if she hits you first then you can hit her back.

Me? I no longer have to deal with this dilemma because I don't find myself in those situations anymore. I wonder why?

If, as a man you can't control your emotions then you're a *****...simple as that.

That boy was in a rage, anyone can see that...and if it was because of women or a woman, then women will continue to control him as long as he allows them too.

If you have no control over your own emotions then your life will be a f*cked up roller coaster.
El Payaso said:
Where's the outrage about the video of a woman in her 20's beating a teenage boy?
I don't see the video you mentioned being posted on this thread so why would we talk about it?
 

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That there grrrrl power. How come she didn't kick his ass like in the movies?.....coz eqwaaaaality !! That chick needs to write an angry letter at the muffington post to every taxpaying beta/omega battery under the title of "Here's why that's a problem"

But in all seriousness. When 80-ish percent of males are now involuntary incels as a by-product of unleashed hypergamy (alpha fux/beta bux, through laws writ large upon society) you're gonna see blowback. You think this is bad? These Elliot Rodgers haven't even got started. That young kid probably just realised he's going to be paying for that chicks fatherless sprog (her body her choice, your wallet no voice) in 10 years time and he won't even get to phuck her for the privilege. What's he got to lose?
 

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noobolgy said:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=580283122089788&fref=nf

Now of course, of course this is unacceptable. It shouldn't happen, it's a random girl.

But why? I mean back in the day, before womens rights, this type of stuff probably never happened. But now you see or hear more and more about this.

Do you think this dude is just angry towards women for some reason? If he is, could it have to do with how women are allowed to do what ever they want with out social repercussions?

Maybe he has dealt with a lot of rejections due to lack of understanding how women work? I mean in the world there is always a reaction, so what do you think he is reacting to?

I mean, only hurting people do hurtful things. What do you think is the source of the pain this young man is in? Where ever there is smoke, there is a fire.

But before any of you attack this guy for doing it, lots of women do this emotionally to males on a daily basis, and get away with it.
Um, I can't believe no one is even noticing this. These are Russians, this is the Old World. In America, the boy would be crucified. Brothers and sisters fight all the time (here in America), no? Yet, if it was non-blood-related boy and girl fighting on the sidewalk like in this case, then YOU KNOW that Hell would reign down on the American boy. Almost any other country on this planet, you're fine to strike a woman/girl who's outta line.

Girls are so insulated here in America...by the courts, by other boys err white knights. If this was in America, all of those boys would have jumped the one boy trying to foot sweep the b!tch, outta white knightedness in hopes of getting in to the foot-sweptee's panties, moreso than outta any "moral" or sense of "higher calling" to protect the girl. That's America. There's always shadowy, duplicitous, slimey, dark recessed, ulterior motives coming outta the American mind. It's perversion from our movies, it's perversion from our media (news), the American mind has been programmed to constantly Lie, and scheme and err "be free" yeah, be free to do whatever by whatever means cause we are "the only 'free' nation on Earth!" yeah, uh huh. We are so much betta than everyone else. An American's mind and way of life is so full of smoke n' mirrors, we've been taught that for the past 50 years. In other countries, it is blunt, the way is cut n' dry, more out in the open, and thus more brutal 'appearing.' Ulterior motives are less on everyone's minds the way ours is so passive and layered to scheme for what we, as individuals, want, ultimately. We are way more passive-aggressive. Other countries are more out in the open with how it's gonna be. So it's Snake or Lies vs. Lion or Truth.
 

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Um, I can't believe no one is even noticing this. These are Russians, this is the Old World. In America, the boy would be crucified. Brothers and sisters fight all the time (here in America), no? Yet, if it was non-blood-related boy and girl fighting on the sidewalk like in this case, then YOU KNOW that Hell would reign down on the American boy. Almost any other country on this planet, you're fine to strike a woman/girl who's outta line.

Girls are so insulated here in America...by the courts, by other boys err white knights. If this was in America, all of those boys would have jumped the one boy trying to foot sweep the b!tch, outta white knightedness in hopes of getting in to the foot-sweptee's panties, moreso than outta any "moral" or sense of "higher calling" to protect the girl. That's America. There's always shadowy, duplicitous, slimey, dark recesses, ulterior motives coming outta the American mind. It's perversion from our movies, it's perversion from our media (news), the American mind has been programmed to constantly Lie, and scheme and err "be free" yeah, be free to do whatever by whatever means cause we are "the only 'free' nation on Earth!" yeah, uh huh. We are so much betta than everyone else. An American's mind and way of life is so full of smoke n' mirrors, we've been taught that for the past 50 years. In other countries, it is blunt, the way is cut n' dry, more out in the open, and thus more brutal 'appearing.' Ulterior motives are less on everyone's minds the way ours is so passive and layered to get what we, as individuals, scheme for what we want, ultimately. We are way more passive-aggressive. Other countries are more out in the open with how it's gonna be. So it's Snake or Lies vs. Lion or Truth.
Actually there was a thread about this on bb dot com the Misc and those kids are Dutch if I remember right.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cordoncordon said:
Actually there was a thread about this on bb dot com the Misc and those kids are Dutch if I remember right.
You're right, I thought I'd heard Russian in there. Does not sound Dutch to me, though. Sounds Brazilian now. I heard "Ahora." Also, my first impression was that there were other girls there walking with them, but now I see that it was a pack of guys. Yeah, that Does seem pretty malicious now on second viewing. Probably scared the sh!t outta her, and may have scarred her emotionally And physically (and we know that that is a woman's main asset, to remain blemish-free for the sake of her potential heights of hypergamy in her life or 20's until she turns 30).
 
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