"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do you think this girl is interested in that guy?

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Why do you think this girl is interested in that guy (See this)?

Is there anything I could use for my game from that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SgtSplacker

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"Is there anything I could use for my game from that?"

Be good at something...

Meet chicks trying to be good at that something...

Profit...
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Are you saying the girl who looks like she hasn't ate a thing in 2 weeks is.....hot?

*palm face*
 

yuppaz

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Dude, you don't know? You need to put on some fat to get girls like that. Hot women are insecure and fat guys make them feel good about themselves. Pick up the twinkies, mini-nuts
 

floydb25

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You're never going to find answers this way, because there is no one answer. You can't say "this girl likes that guy because he's hot", for example, because the next girl of her ilk might not be with a hot guy. You can't really single out specific traits then generalize on what women want (although everyone on here does). There's a lot of variables at play; everyone has different tastes and standards, and upbringings / environments, social classes, etc. These all factor into it... As well, how they feel about themselves, what they're familar with, and who they are. Like attracts like.

A lot of times, as a guy, you won't understand why women choose who they do (although competition, ego, and jealousy has a lot to do with the wondering bit). Women dont even understand why other women get with who they do. No one really knows... Probably not even themselves.

A lot of it is in the subconscious, so unless you're in there, nothing will make sense.

You shouldn't be trying to find answers this way. If you find out she's attracted to *******s, or whatever, and end up becoming one - the next girl will be repelled by it. Or if you become Hulkamania - the next girl wants a skinny guy. You might be exciting and crazy - but the next girl wants someone who's shy and sweet. You just never know; its impossible to figure out, because everyone is different.

Rather than worry about why Y likes X, and transforming yourself into X to appeal to Y (when you might not even know precisely why, and just assuming / making an ass out of yourself / wasting time) - just work on improving yourself and attracting women. Thats all you can really do.

To that end, worry about you - not everyone else. You dont really know everyone else, anyway. And EVERYONE is different. What works (or doesn't) for them might not apply to you, so dont go assuming and believing everything.

****, I've heard people whine and cry about how being nice is the kiss of death ZOMG, but chicks were never repelled by it. A guy once told me NOT to be nice to a certain girl I dated, but I was nice and shy AND nervous (lolz). I brought it up during the date, and she said the reason he got rejected was because she wasn't attracted to him physically, and he stunk like sweaty feet (he seriously did). But even though I was a shy / insecure / beta dumbass - she was always excited and giggly. Another girl said I was very attractive, but not exciting enough and too shy. Then another said I was attractive and sweet and too good to be true. Then another said this; another that. Some didn't want to date because I was too skinny and short; others thought I had the perfect size. Some weren't very attracted; others were head over heels. Some thought my ***** behaviors were cute; others thought I was a *****.

Too many variables, man. Everyone is different. Literally, everyone. There is no one-size fits all, you're not going to attract them all, and you're NEVER going to find out what every woman likes. Ever.

So, stop wasting time with this kind of crap. It's not going to get you anywhere.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nmartinez12443

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money

Look at the 19/20 picture he bought her a Louie v purse and heels, $$$$ makes the world go round
 

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She's about a 6 he's about a 3 or 4 on the mens scale add in his personality and a little cash and you've got yourself an even match
 
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