"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do you think the latest-wave femynism hasn't thrown the cultural meme of the diamond engagement ring into the ashbin of history?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.gq.com/story/lab-grown-diamonds-are-a-thing

Lab-Grown Diamonds: They’re Real, and They’re Spectacular

Getting engaged just got 30% cheaper.
my opinion: Why is this still a cultural meme? Womyn are going to college more, getting more careered up, etc., yet men are supposed to come with the cash for this? Why hasn't femynism destroyed this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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great post. i mean i see your point. the ****ty thing is that the majority of women truly are blind and hold contradictory views on things. this is a testament to: "women dont really know what they want". and its true. i dont buy the whole chad mentality though, that they all just want the hottest 1% of dudes is baloney. when you interact with the real world you realize this imo.
 
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