"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do you think "plus size" model got shamed for losing weight?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this and it got me thinking:

https://www.yahoo.com/celebrity/ashley-graham-shuts-down-internet-trolls-slamming-230544209.html
Ashley Graham has made a name for herself as a confident, size 14 model who encourages women to embrace their bodies. But now Ashley, the first plus-size model to appear on the cover of the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue, is catching heat for appearing thinner in recent Instagram pics.

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“What happened to embracing your size? You advertise that message then go and lose weight??

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“Fake fat person. … You’re not overweight, stop saying you are. If you are fit, own it, don’t crutch on what made you famous. If you changed, just keep it real, don’t tell me you’re fat when you look like perfection.
my opinion: It seems like these folks - and I will presume that they are all fat chicks - are wanting a fellow fatty to stay fat. To me, this says that these fat chicks really don't even want to be healthy and are envious that someone like them has become a better person. How abhorrent! :down:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WitnessGR

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Maybe a feeling of betrayal where, she was a role model for fat chicks... Also, when somebody else is successful, it represents more so than anything else your failures to find success as well.
 

dude99

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Maybe a feeling of betrayal where, she was a role model for fat chicks... Also, when somebody else is successful, it represents more so than anything else your failures to find success as well.
Chicks can never be happy for other chicks. When they are envoious the fangs always come out. 1. She is a model. 2. She lost weight making herself a better person. If it was a guy we would all be saying, hey bro good job. But chicks can't do that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ronaldo7

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The land whales lost one of their own.

Whales mourn when one of their own has gone.
 

MillionBillionaire

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Lol @ plus size models. It's like saying smart stupid person.

Instead of congradulating this girl on a healthy decision, they choose to condone her.

... Women
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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It's basically saying how there is something wrong with fat people if these mdoels lose weight. Fat people have the largest egos out of any other type of person in the world because they just believe that there is nothing wrong with them at all (hence how they got so fat), and a plus size model losing weight means that there is something wrong with them that they cannot deny. There is also the female competitive drive too which creates jealousy amongst many women. Those who see others like them and representing them and making them look good (the fat 'model' representing the fat person makes the fat person look good because she is technically a model who is fat and that somehow proves to fat women that being fat is beautiful), and then the representative suddenly tries to break away and better him or herself (the model losing weight), the original fatty can't handle that because now that means that being fat isn't beautiful. Funny thing is, no one really says that, the fat person just feels that that's the case, which means that they know deep down inside that there is something wrong with them but that they just refuse to do anything about it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheMonkeyKing

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The thing that SJWs don't understand (ignore) about excess body fat (fat, not weight,which is a different thing entirely) is that it is top five morbidity/mortality factors in medicine; probably second behind psychological stress; maybe third or fourth behind genetic and environmental factors. Excess fat contributes substantially to:

-Heart disease
-Diabetes and other endocrine disorders
-Cancer
-Cardiovascular disease
-Arthritis
-Dementia
 
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