"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why do you think half of women have had a rape fantasy?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I always assumed this came about because of our cave man past. Back in the day there was no sweet talking etc.. just bash over the head and take what you want. I guess women were some how programmed to expect this?
 

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SteR said:
I always assumed this came about because of our cave man past. Back in the day there was no sweet talking etc.. just bash over the head and take what you want. I guess women were some how programmed to expect this?
Was going to say this
 

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Do you think when they are horny, women fantasize about some guy that knocks on her door with a dozen roses, they go to dinner, he opens the car door for her, tells her how beautiful she is and they go home and screw like rabbits? idk, maybe they do, but i doubt it. I think she would have fallen asleep when she got the dinner part. :D

Most likely its just an exteme extension of wanting to be dominated in bed.

Its like a guy who's hitting the weights may have a day dream about kicking the crap out like 6 thugs that looked at him funny or
called his mom a wh0re or whatever. Its just an extension of wanting to be strong. In real life it will never happen nor do we want to even go there, too much danger.. someone could pull out a gun, they could come back and kill you later, you could go to jail, whatever.. but we tend to think at the extemes in our fantasys because the extremes are kind of fun in our mind because there are no consequences, you can't lose because you make the rules and control everything.

Same thing with rape fantasy, danger written all over it, guy will come back, std's, shame, guilt, etc.. but in your fantasy it could
seem erotic. The guy just vanishes into thin air afterwards, nobody knows about it, he has no std's, he looks exactly how
her perfect guy looks, etc..
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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st_99 said:
Most likely its just an exteme extension of wanting to be dominated in bed.
This is all there is to it IMO. Women want to feel a man's strength in bed, it's just the nature of sex, male/female, dominant/submissive, etc. I'm actually surprised the percentage isn't much higher. Maybe they just don't admit to it.

Anyway, it's just a fantasy. It doesn't mean they literally want to be raped.
 
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