Why do you think half of women have had a rape fantasy?

[MatureDJ]

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...s-rape-fantasies-how-common-what-do-they-mean

It must be that women really want an alpha male, and a rapist is at his core, such an alpha male.

 

[SteR]

I always assumed this came about because of our cave man past. Back in the day there was no sweet talking etc.. just bash over the head and take what you want. I guess women were some how programmed to expect this?

 

[Griever114]

I always assumed this came about because of our cave man past. Back in the day there was no sweet talking etc.. just bash over the head and take what you want. I guess women were some how programmed to expect this?

Was going to say this

 

[Bible_Belt]

The comments to the article blame porn. If women are sick in the head, somehow it must be the fault of men.

 

[st_99]

Do you think when they are horny, women fantasize about some guy that knocks on her door with a dozen roses, they go to dinner, he opens the car door for her, tells her how beautiful she is and they go home and screw like rabbits? idk, maybe they do, but i doubt it. I think she would have fallen asleep when she got the dinner part.

Most likely its just an exteme extension of wanting to be dominated in bed.

Its like a guy who's hitting the weights may have a day dream about kicking the crap out like 6 thugs that looked at him funny or
called his mom a wh0re or whatever. Its just an extension of wanting to be strong. In real life it will never happen nor do we want to even go there, too much danger.. someone could pull out a gun, they could come back and kill you later, you could go to jail, whatever.. but we tend to think at the extemes in our fantasys because the extremes are kind of fun in our mind because there are no consequences, you can't lose because you make the rules and control everything.

Same thing with rape fantasy, danger written all over it, guy will come back, std's, shame, guilt, etc.. but in your fantasy it could
seem erotic. The guy just vanishes into thin air afterwards, nobody knows about it, he has no std's, he looks exactly how
her perfect guy looks, etc..

 

[zekko]

Most likely its just an exteme extension of wanting to be dominated in bed.

This is all there is to it IMO. Women want to feel a man's strength in bed, it's just the nature of sex, male/female, dominant/submissive, etc. I'm actually surprised the percentage isn't much higher. Maybe they just don't admit to it.

Anyway, it's just a fantasy. It doesn't mean they literally want to be raped.