stuka1939
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ChrizZ said:Tell me one logical reason why you would feel that way.
Because EVERYONE cares what others think of them to varying degrees.
Those who say they don't care are liars.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
ChrizZ said:Tell me one logical reason why you would feel that way.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Haha, take out the "no homo" and the "girlfriend" part and you got the inner workings of stuka's brain. I mean, honestly. Who walks around thinking of this crap?Wolf said:hahaha that'd be great though, you walking along with her and the "hot" guys staring at you like wtf why is my girlfriend half a ton and hideous when this guy's is great?!
OHHH ALMOST FORGOT! (no homo)![]()
I see it all the time. Ugly guys with hot girls. The hotter the girl the LESS she cares about looks because she is constantly surrounded by hot guys so they are nothing special for her.wutangfinancial said:the looks don't matter crap is a myth perpetuated by ugly guys. Seeing as how I never see ugly guys with hot girls, what you're saying has zero empirical basis.
If you're unattractive and hit on hot girls, people will straight up clown you. I took the silly crap on this site to heart....you know what happened? I got laughed at in public a lot, and girls going, "ohhh...I feel so bad for you". And I'm better looking than a lot of the losers on this site...I can only imagine what would happen to them if they actually went outside and tried interacting with hot girls.
You do realize, if you're short and/or ugly, and you hit on a hot girl, she'll think you're joking?
This only changes when you're over 35, loaded, and dating older woman-then i's money. In the younger scene, looks are 110% of it. Most hot girls are crazy stupid. They wouldn't appreciate your wit anyways.
Weird that you called me a moron in your post message since you said "Duh, moron. Guess what? You are tall and good looking!"wutangfinancial said:^uh, you sent me a pic. You're a 6 at best. You even said that you weren't good looking in the PM. Sorry bro. It's your looks that's keeping hotties from checking you out. All the 6's and below check you out instead, duh.
Now, you're not ugly, either. You could get a decent GF, but sorry, you're not pulling hotties at nightclubs.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well, why would I get a hot gf then if I´m not a super model?wutangfinancial said:no, you might even get a hot gf. Hell, I dated a hot girl, from another country.