stuka1939
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ChrizZ said:Tell me one logical reason why you would feel that way.
Because EVERYONE cares what others think of them to varying degrees.
Those who say they don't care are liars.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ChrizZ said:Tell me one logical reason why you would feel that way.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Haha, take out the "no homo" and the "girlfriend" part and you got the inner workings of stuka's brain. I mean, honestly. Who walks around thinking of this crap?Wolf said:hahaha that'd be great though, you walking along with her and the "hot" guys staring at you like wtf why is my girlfriend half a ton and hideous when this guy's is great?!
OHHH ALMOST FORGOT! (no homo)![]()
I see it all the time. Ugly guys with hot girls. The hotter the girl the LESS she cares about looks because she is constantly surrounded by hot guys so they are nothing special for her.wutangfinancial said:the looks don't matter crap is a myth perpetuated by ugly guys. Seeing as how I never see ugly guys with hot girls, what you're saying has zero empirical basis.
If you're unattractive and hit on hot girls, people will straight up clown you. I took the silly crap on this site to heart....you know what happened? I got laughed at in public a lot, and girls going, "ohhh...I feel so bad for you". And I'm better looking than a lot of the losers on this site...I can only imagine what would happen to them if they actually went outside and tried interacting with hot girls.
You do realize, if you're short and/or ugly, and you hit on a hot girl, she'll think you're joking?
This only changes when you're over 35, loaded, and dating older woman-then i's money. In the younger scene, looks are 110% of it. Most hot girls are crazy stupid. They wouldn't appreciate your wit anyways.
Weird that you called me a moron in your post message since you said "Duh, moron. Guess what? You are tall and good looking!"wutangfinancial said:^uh, you sent me a pic. You're a 6 at best. You even said that you weren't good looking in the PM. Sorry bro. It's your looks that's keeping hotties from checking you out. All the 6's and below check you out instead, duh.
Now, you're not ugly, either. You could get a decent GF, but sorry, you're not pulling hotties at nightclubs.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well, why would I get a hot gf then if I´m not a super model?wutangfinancial said:no, you might even get a hot gf. Hell, I dated a hot girl, from another country.