"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do you post?

Doggystyle

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Just wondering the reasons why some people on this board post so much and spend so much time on it, what motivates you to write lots of those long posts giving advice? what do you get out of it?

What i mean is the people that write really long reply's to people's posts or really long well thought out tips (both appreciated by the way) that must of taken ages to write and i just can't see what they actually get out of it.

This isn't a dig at people that post a lot, i'm just genuinely curious.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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comic_relief

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I post maybe four or five times a day. Usually, I have a lot of time on my hands because of university or I am at the computer a lot because of studying.

My posts are quick and too the point except my last one and usually only take me three or four minutes.

comic_relief

EDIT: In the last 5 days, I have made 18 posts and seven or eight PMs to people. Most of it is because I am leaving so I dunno.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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I've been on this site for several years.
Only in the past few months have I began to post. Especially in the past few weeks.

I just started posting because I now feel I can share my experiences as I begin the final phases of truly becoming the man I want.

This site (and the gym) is about my only source of entertainment to break up the monotony of my overscheduled days. In a way it has become part of my routine even though I feel I have severely outgrown it.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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I post cuz its a forum.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bible_Belt

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There are occasionally posts by some guys going through a rough time who genuinely can be helped by the advice on this forum by learning from the mistakes and experiences of others. Where else can a guy go to get the truth about women?
 

PRMoon

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Because if I spend anymore time having discussions like this at the bar, I'll develop an even more severe case of alchololism.
 

piranha45

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personal amusement
 

Doggystyle

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The main reason i post is i either want to find something out or I want to get my idea's out in writing as they appear more clear to me. I only post on topics that i'm currently thinking about before i even turn on my computer and then have a look around to see if anyone else has started topics on this, i've recently noticed the benifits of getting idea's written out, sort of engrave them in your mind.

Also I post a lot when i'm bored just for amusement, i'm stopping this though.

The reason i started this thread is i was trying to decide weather or not this is a big waste of time, so i've started limited my time on it to no more than half and hour a day so i get more stuff done.
 
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