"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why do you need booze?

slitherjef

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I find it ironic that the biggest tool for many of the "alphas" here is a bottle of liquor to get into a chicks panties. Sounds like beer goggles to me. Why not use a bottle of ether and a rag, at least spare her a hangover?

This feels like a weak "game" to me? Cant smooth talk your way in, so make her loose her inhibitions with alcohol. She's sober, but will not let you in, give her some booze. Still can't get in, give her more. Still nothing, hows about something stronger? Wait, what? She finally decided to give you some head? But pukes on your rod? Well, at least you got that far! Hows about more, maybe she will let you in her snatch. Or get alcohol poisoning. Good plan :rolleyes: Okay, perhaps I am being a bit dramatic here, but what I am personally getting at is:

Honestly I think it would make me feel worse thinking I have to get her drunk before getting into her pants. I guess many of you here are just amoral, or just too egotistical or what not to care, "just as long as you get some pu$$y"

I am probably the only one that don't go by the motto that seams to be the norm around here, "By any means necessary" But I guess the woman can always say, "Well, he got me drunk" as an "anti slut defense"

Still would make me feel like crap I had to get a woman drunk to get into her panties, but thats just me.

Thoughts? Anyone else feel this way?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MisterD

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I agree in the sense that--I see a lot of men on here ask chicks out to bars, for the bulk of their dates.

And I'm reading this like "really?, again?"

I'm not so much hung up on the alcohol part, but more so the originality part, although you make a good point about how much alcohol is needed to actually bang these chicks and would they have banged if sober?

Almost every thread I read involving dates deals with the dude asking the chick out for drinks.

I guess if it's working for them, have at it. We all have our own ways of bedding chicks I guess.
 

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slitherjef said:
I find it ironic that the biggest tool for many of the "alphas" here is a bottle of liquor to get into a chicks panties. Sounds like beer goggles to me. Why not use a bottle of ether and a rag, at least spare her a hangover?

This feels like a weak "game" to me? Cant smooth talk your way in, so make her loose her inhibitions with alcohol. She's sober, but will not let you in, give her some booze. Still can't get in, give her more. Still nothing, hows about something stronger? Wait, what? She finally decided to give you some head? But pukes on your rod? Well, at least you got that far! Hows about more, maybe she will let you in her snatch. Or get alcohol poisoning. Good plan :rolleyes: Okay, perhaps I am being a bit dramatic here, but what I am personally getting at is:

Honestly I think it would make me feel worse thinking I have to get her drunk before getting into her pants. I guess many of you here are just amoral, or just too egotistical or what not to care, "just as long as you get some pu$$y"

I am probably the only one that don't go by the motto that seams to be the norm around here, "By any means necessary" But I guess the woman can always say, "Well, he got me drunk" as an "anti slut defense"

Still would make me feel like crap I had to get a woman drunk to get into her panties, but thats just me.

Thoughts? Anyone else feel this way?
Your analysis is distorted. Most guys drink to loosen their inhibitions, not the girls. You give guys too much credit assuming at the end of the night they're in a position where some chick is heaving while giving them a BJ.
 

cablecow15

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usually if a chick is "used" after to much alcohol , shes usually picked up by a guy after shes done to much drinking on her own .
 

HariPoter13

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Booze is used to reverse the effects of society/media brainwashing of women.


P.S. I need booze so I can "see better".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FairShake

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I personally prefer cuddling up next to a sexy blonde than waking up alone with my morals every morning.

Once again, sex isn't meant to prove how alpha you are, validate your status as a man, or show off your game to other guys. It is for your pleasure and their's. The idea of "game" is to essentially smooth talk and lie your way into some woman's pants. Is getting them drunk to enhance the aura a little bit really that much worse?

Besides, they look better after 3 and I look better after 4.
 
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