Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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why do you inspire to be a DJ

BuckeyeMarc

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what led you to become a DJ? My personal story is that I went out of state for college(my freshman yr.) I was previously involved with a girl back home, who past away. This may be wrong to say, but I learned a lot from it and that I want to better myself. What's your story??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dustin

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I had no problem talkingwith chicks so I wanted to try to figure out how to get chicks that actualy give me feeling, but i gussing DJ'ing came naturaly to me.
 

sexy_kuta

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i was gettin fat and VERY lazy, and i thought i knew women back then..i got a gf which i deicated my life to(stupid me) and left out the more important things in life

so basicly is my first gurlfriend, i wanna become a better ladies man and to stop wearing my heart on my sleeve
when we broke up.. i notice how much life is worth, and since then i been going to the gym everyday and doing the things I love.. i also met many more women,

my standards went higher

i have alot of confidence
 

Docs

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I'm striving to become a better person, a happier person, a stronger person. By self-improvement, analyzing situations and experiencing them for myself, I hope to become the man I want to be.
 

Ace of Flames

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had a gf for about 2 weeks. she wasnt very attractive, *****y, not a giver at all, and she was a freshman....

i didnt know what i was doing, and it was over pretty fast. after that, i realized i dont want that to ever happen again, so i did a search, and found this place.

read up on the bible and various tips and threads for a while, then joined about a month ago. since i started coming here, i've totally changed in just about every way. im more outgoing, funnier, and more confident. i know what the hell im doing with girls. i have more people around me all the time. im a better person.

and i have sosuave to thank. so.... uh.... thanks, big guy.... you da man!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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