"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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why do you guys stick around here?

falconslax89

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ive been reading alot of posts by guys that have like 500...1000 however many posts and have been here for years yet have never been with or ****ed a girl. wtf? im just wondering what you possibly have to gain by continuing to post on this website. not to be a d!ck but i mean obviously its not benefiting you and its not benefiting the more successful guys listening to a bunch of virgins. you have read all the tips and information...its all basically the same. nobody is going to come on here one day and reveal some magical formula that noone else thought of. confidence...it all boils down to confidence..thats it. thats all. once your confident (not a single one of you people are or you would have had atleast a few girls play with your wiener by now...)THEN come back here and learn all the tricky little techniques to rope in girls because they wont work worth a sh!t unless you use them confidently.
ive been on this site for a few months now. at first it was great, i learned a lot of things i hadnt thought of before and it even helped me get a few girls i might have lost otherwise. however i rarely post anymore for a reason...theres nothing else to learn. the only way you learn is by DOING! and im usually out DOING!
i usually check the site a time or 2 a day when im on a computer, however that consists of looking for an interesting post(there usually isnt one)...maybe reading for 5 minutes if i find one, and going on my way.
you guys have all the information you need to seduce tons of woman, the only things your missing cant be found on this website, or learned from anybody else...its a little switch inside of you that you can turn on whenever you choose to. this moment if you want...RIGHT NOW. be CONFIDENT!
im that random guy on the street that you make eye contact with everyday and immediately look away...dont look away! stare me right in the fvcking eye. im not gonna do anything except thingk.."hey, what a confident guy" and go on my way.


now that my rant is over ive gotta go so the girl thats about to come over
http://s91.photobucket.com/albums/k...rrent=29443_1298950355894_1294440096_3073.jpg

and smoke me up doesnt see this creepy website im on...peace!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This forum isn't that focused on picking up women. It's more geared towards self improvement, dealing with sh*t that life throws at you, and a small part how to behave around women.

So you've got your **** together, good for you. Lots of people here don't.

I don't understand what's so "creepy" about this forum, relative to other forums.
 

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Captain said:
Yes, it's better to be confident than it is to hate yourself, but it's not the magic bullet.
That's true. You can be as confident as you want, and for awhile people will fall for it, but when push comes to shove you'll be a laughing stock if you don't have the knowledge or skill that you need to finish the job.

So you can bang a few cute girls. Congrats. I know a guy like this. Kinda ugly, not much money, goes through women like bottles of beer but he can't keep them around long, mostly because he's not very interesting as a person. His life is a mess otherwise. But he can bang some cute girls.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
This forum isn't that focused on picking up women. It's more geared towards self improvement, dealing with sh*t that life throws at you, and a small part how to behave around women.

So you've got your **** together, good for you. Lots of people here don't.

I don't understand what's so "creepy" about this forum, relative to other forums.
ok yes in theory but dont try to tell me the vast majority of posts aren't about picking up woman because that is straight bullsh!t i dont care what you say...true many of them tie into self improvement because thats a great way to get the woman but most dudes here came looking for pvssy.
i dont think its creepy, you dont think its creepy, but woman on the other hand...would think its pretty creepy.
 

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ok yes in theory but dont try to tell me the vast majority of posts aren't about picking up woman because that is straight bullsh!t i dont care what you say...true many of them tie into self improvement because thats a great way to get the woman but most dudes here are came looking for pvssy.
i dont think its creepy, you dont think its creepy, but woman on the other hand...would think its pretty creepy.
Goddamn, you're a woman aren't you?

And while most of the guys coming here are looking for the ways to get easy pvssy, that's not what they receive.

There is no easy way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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falconslax89

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Alle_Gory said:
That's true. You can be as confident as you want, and for awhile people will fall for it, but when push comes to shove you'll be a laughing stock if you don't have the knowledge or skill that you need to finish the job.

So you can bang a few cute girls. Congrats. I know a guy like this. Kinda ugly, not much money, goes through women like bottles of beer but he can't keep them around long, mostly because he's not very interesting as a person. His life is a mess otherwise. But he can bang some cute girls.
what im trying to say is that you need to be confident above all else and THEN learn the knowledge and skill. its completely worthless otherwise. thing is a lot of people here with 1000's of posts have the knowledge...do they not? they just cant put it to use because they have no confidence...

you are turning around everything im saying into something else. i agree with you.
 

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falconslax89 said:
ive been reading alot of posts by guys that have like 500...1000 however many posts and have been here for years yet have never been with or ****ed a girl. wtf? im just wondering what you possibly have to gain by continuing to post on this website. not to be a d!ck but i mean obviously its not benefiting you and its not benefiting the more successful guys listening to a bunch of virgins. you have read all the tips and information...its all basically the same. nobody is going to come on here one day and reveal some magical formula that noone else thought of. confidence...it all boils down to confidence..thats it. thats all. once your confident (not a single one of you people are or you would have had atleast a few girls play with your wiener by now...)THEN come back here and learn all the tricky little techniques to rope in girls because they wont work worth a sh!t unless you use them confidently.
ive been on this site for a few months now. at first it was great, i learned a lot of things i hadnt thought of before and it even helped me get a few girls i might have lost otherwise. however i rarely post anymore for a reason...theres nothing else to learn. the only way you learn is by DOING! and im usually out DOING!
i usually check the site a time or 2 a day when im on a computer, however that consists of looking for an interesting post(there usually isnt one)...maybe reading for 5 minutes if i find one, and going on my way.
you guys have all the information you need to seduce tons of woman, the only things your missing cant be found on this website, or learned from anybody else...its a little switch inside of you that you can turn on whenever you choose to. this moment if you want...RIGHT NOW. be CONFIDENT!
im that random guy on the street that you make eye contact with everyday and immediately look away...dont look away! stare me right in the fvcking eye. im not gonna do anything except thingk.."hey, what a confident guy" and go on my way.


now that my rant is over ive gotta go so the girl thats about to come over
http://s91.photobucket.com/albums/k...rrent=29443_1298950355894_1294440096_3073.jpg

and smoke me up doesnt see this creepy website im on...peace
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You say you have to leave but then 20mins later....your replying to your thread????????

Also whats even more disturbing then guys coming here for years is YOU having public schooling for close to 20years and you STILL dont know how to use grammar correctly.....:nervous:

People want to come and learn let them why do you have to trash talk them? Noone is trash talking you and your waste of a public education ;/ .
 

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j0n24 said:
You say you have to leave but then 20mins later....your replying to your thread????????

Also whats even more disturbing then guys coming here for years is YOU having public schooling for close to 20years and you STILL dont know how to use grammar correctly.....:nervous:

People want to come and learn let them why do you have to trash talk them? Noone is trash talking you and your waste of a public education ;/ .
i was actually a direct admit into the university of missouri school of journalism, not to brag, however i am not writing a fvcking column here ..im talking to a bunch of dudes on the internet and honestly dont give a ****. if you can understand it clearly its fine by me. but man good job being one of those anal grammar nerds b!tching in and not contributing to a forum as well as your other lame attempt at dissing of me when i make valid points..
 

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falconslax89 said:
i was actually a direct admit into the university of missouri school of journalism, not to brag, however i am not writing a fvcking column here ..im talking to a bunch of dudes on the internet and honestly dont give a ****. if you can understand it clearly its fine by me. but man good job being one of those anal grammar nerds b!tching in and not contributing to a forum as well as your other lame attempt at dissing of me when i make valid points..
I can understand it, but the post you're dissing is a lot clearer. Not judging or anything that's just my impression.

As for why I stay on, curiosity. That's really it.
 

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The site isn't just about picking up women.

And are women any different? They spend their whole lives (as a broad generalization) basically doing nothing except finding out and implementing ways to make themselves attractive to men.

Whereas, for us men, who have to (as we always have done) make and change the world, the focus should be on self improvement, continually improving yourself to be the best man that you can be, and doing what you want to do with your life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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to the people who say this forum is more about self improvement then picking up women, i disagree. self improvement for what? doing better in school or at your job? i dont need a forum to tell me that. i know i shouldnt even be relying on an internet forum to help me improve my game but it is the curiosity of learning some things that keep me coming back
 

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I have been coming here for several years and I most often cruise The mature forum. Yes, this site has a lot of pick up material in the archives. I like to call those posts GEMS. For all intents and purposes, I generally frequent this forum to see what folks are going through and what they are up to. Even though sometimes mature forum as well as other facets of this wonderful place people seem to get side tracked.

My main goal is NOT to learn pick up artist lines and techniques when I am here, but to enjoy others experience and from time to time share some of my own.

Back in my hey day I did just fine with the fairer sex indeed, but as of late because of personal difficulties not so much. With that being said, I have never claimed to be the greatest DJ in the world nor do inspire to be such. What I want is a better experience with dealing with women and a few years ago I achieved it.

Just because I have hit a dry spell does not mean I will give up or stop coming. Being a true DJ is about furthering your knowledge and never giving up. Some times people get into stupid posts with one another and it does take away from this site, but on the other hand another poster will post a thread that is uplifting and something that could help.

Just like much in life. The book teaches how to do it, but you really learn by doing.
 

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1- People come here to figure out women, to get puss.
2- People realise they must improve themselves in general to be a high value male - gym, confidence, etc... to get said puss.
3- thus its both a getting woman, and self improvement website

There is quite a lot of self improvement topics not really covered here
 

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This forum has thought me alot... I dont neceserally need to come here anymore but i come on here when i have spare time. Personally i learned everything i could possibly learn about pickup but i dont mind giving advice to some people sometime. Plus some people have interesting stories/problems that they are going through and its a good learning experience.

Just because someone logs in and posts on the forum doesnt necesarraly mean they are a virgin or suck with women. It could be that they are bored or want to help others out.
 

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Honestly, the reason I stick around here is I like message boards and I find this one interesting. I've always been interested in the process of attraction and how it works. I find it fascinating.

I have a girlfriend so that isn't an issue. I do think this site can serve as a kind of motivational spealer sometimes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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