"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do you guys do this

DonJuan11

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Why does everyone on this forum try to rationalize everything a girl does?

- why didn't she phone me back?
- She called me a sweet nice guy but won't sleep with me
- She said "hi" two times, now what?
- She went back to her old bf
- She never picks up her phone
- She always says she's busy
- She won't kiss me or give me any affection after our dates


Bottomline:
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You don't look like Brad and are not fun.

Because if you did look like him and / or were fun, she would not forget to phone you back and wouldn't hesitate to sleep with you. (I don't look like him either)


I hate this, Britney's new album is actually good
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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marinetti

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a good vibe is what you need. a friendly, fun, dominant vibe.

looks aren't as important for men as good grooming. get a good haircut, wear decent clothes, and brush your teeth guys.
 

Ratisson

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Bottome Line: Her actions toward you is determined by her Interest Level in you.
If she likes you, she'll go out. If she doesnt, she wont go out.

and thats the bottome line.
Great post.
 
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