"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why do you guys do this

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DonJuan11

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Why does everyone on this forum try to rationalize everything a girl does?

- why didn't she phone me back?
- She called me a sweet nice guy but won't sleep with me
- She said "hi" two times, now what?
- She went back to her old bf
- She never picks up her phone
- She always says she's busy
- She won't kiss me or give me any affection after our dates


Bottomline:
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You don't look like Brad and are not fun.

Because if you did look like him and / or were fun, she would not forget to phone you back and wouldn't hesitate to sleep with you. (I don't look like him either)


I hate this, Britney's new album is actually good
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marinetti

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a good vibe is what you need. a friendly, fun, dominant vibe.

looks aren't as important for men as good grooming. get a good haircut, wear decent clothes, and brush your teeth guys.
 
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Bottome Line: Her actions toward you is determined by her Interest Level in you.
If she likes you, she'll go out. If she doesnt, she wont go out.

and thats the bottome line.
Great post.
 
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