Aristippus
Master Don Juan
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OC Speedball said : There should be a trade-off, yes. But you both need to be equals.
The idea of "equals" is a myth. No woman that I know of is my equal. I am the leader and have my own good qualities. She may have her own desirable qualities too. Male and female complement each other but in the end the male will, in the majority of cases have more to lose than the woman and more to offer. That's just the way it is (unless he is a complete loser). I'm saying the average, responsible man has more to offer women than the majority of women have to offer him. I've come to this conclusion through observation. The so-called "pick-up artist" does not have this mentality.
There is a difference between knowing your time, energy, and life are valuable and just blindly repeating mantras to try to convince yourself. The womanizer and the pick-up artist come from a point of weakness where they let women define who they are. They are nothing more than weak-minded people who twist and contort themselves to please women while at the same time devaluing themselves. Their fake "bravado" is usually an act intended to get the "prize", which in their head is the pvssy.
But at what cost? You don't have to sacrifice your self-esteem and put up with disrespect and put on a million acts or lie to and con women to get them to like you. This is the problem with the womanizer, player, pick-up artist or whatever you want to call it. In the end, I don't CARE whether or not I am liked other than using her interest in me and tons of other behaviors and qualities to determine whether she's worth my time or a waste of it.
"A trend that I think everyone notices on PUA forums and men's lifestyle forums is that undesirable men think they deserve a hot girl just because they know game."
This "game" you speak of is a band-aid. It's worthless. A superior mindset based on truth and knowledge is 100 times superior to "tricks". You think you need to prove yourself to a woman. That tells me that you need to improve on yourself or that you have an inferior mindset or a combination of the 2. Your weakness is betrayed by the very subcommunication in your statements and questions. And you truly expect me to buy into the same weak-minded paradigm shared by the so-called "nice guy" and the "womanizer"? They are both symptoms of the same weakness. You're like someone speaking a foreign language that I can't understand when you ask me these kinds of questions. Un-cross your wires and do less with the right mindset and then you'll be on the right track.
The idea of "equals" is a myth. No woman that I know of is my equal. I am the leader and have my own good qualities. She may have her own desirable qualities too. Male and female complement each other but in the end the male will, in the majority of cases have more to lose than the woman and more to offer. That's just the way it is (unless he is a complete loser). I'm saying the average, responsible man has more to offer women than the majority of women have to offer him. I've come to this conclusion through observation. The so-called "pick-up artist" does not have this mentality.
There is a difference between knowing your time, energy, and life are valuable and just blindly repeating mantras to try to convince yourself. The womanizer and the pick-up artist come from a point of weakness where they let women define who they are. They are nothing more than weak-minded people who twist and contort themselves to please women while at the same time devaluing themselves. Their fake "bravado" is usually an act intended to get the "prize", which in their head is the pvssy.
But at what cost? You don't have to sacrifice your self-esteem and put up with disrespect and put on a million acts or lie to and con women to get them to like you. This is the problem with the womanizer, player, pick-up artist or whatever you want to call it. In the end, I don't CARE whether or not I am liked other than using her interest in me and tons of other behaviors and qualities to determine whether she's worth my time or a waste of it.
"A trend that I think everyone notices on PUA forums and men's lifestyle forums is that undesirable men think they deserve a hot girl just because they know game."
This "game" you speak of is a band-aid. It's worthless. A superior mindset based on truth and knowledge is 100 times superior to "tricks". You think you need to prove yourself to a woman. That tells me that you need to improve on yourself or that you have an inferior mindset or a combination of the 2. Your weakness is betrayed by the very subcommunication in your statements and questions. And you truly expect me to buy into the same weak-minded paradigm shared by the so-called "nice guy" and the "womanizer"? They are both symptoms of the same weakness. You're like someone speaking a foreign language that I can't understand when you ask me these kinds of questions. Un-cross your wires and do less with the right mindset and then you'll be on the right track.
