"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why do women run when u give them the thigs they say they want

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hi everyone. i know women like a chase but when they have a boyfriend you usually hear them complaining saying things like "he never buys me flowers" he never cooks for me" but as soon as a man does these things for a woman she looses interest and sees him as a push over .....i just cant make sense of it lol. are the complaints compliments in disguise?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dustmuffin

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she dosent know what she wants. Watch her actions. Do not listen to her words. She wants the exact opposite of what she says she wants. Read the DJ bible. The book of pook is very good.
 

amazingswayze

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Here, let me help you translate....

What she says: I want a man who buys me flowers....

So all of my catty, female co-workers that I hate (especially that b*tch Kathy in accounting) are jealous of me knowing I'm adored and will be going home to a man who is going to throw me down on the bed, pull my f*cking hair and make me walk funny for two days.
It's not about the flowers
 

zekko

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Amante's pretty close. I'd add she wants a HOT guy to buy her flowers.

Personally, I've long ago taken the flowers out of my repertoire (with some complaints). Seems like just a tradition to keep the florists in business. And as the OP notes, they don't seem to appreciate it anyway - not really. Maybe because it's not original?

It's like an accessory for them or something. Okay, I need a handbag, some shoes, some earrings, and my boyfriend to buy me some flowers. It's just one more thing to make up their day. I've opted out.
 
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