"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why do women respond to condescending tones and language?

IPreyOnIt

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I would guess they do because from my past experience...my approaches always seem to go well when I have that mindset.

Why? Or am I just mistaken?

I for one...can't stand for a female to talk to me in that tone of voice. I like when a female calls me baby...but if it's in that tone...........she can keep that **** to herself!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It is simple - what is the definition of "condescending"?

con·de·scend·ing /ˌkɒndəˈsɛndɪŋ/ Pronunciation
...To deal with people in a patronizingly superior manner.

By a woman becoming a hor she lowers her natural status as a woman and thus the pimp can approach her in this lower state without much resistance, since she has voluntary accepted and conformed to this lower state -, giving the pimp authority over her!!!!!
 

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..eh i like women that dont need to be snuggled all the time.

As for them liking an ass-holish attitude,depends on her.Keep it real,not rude...but real.
 

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well no chick will like been approached in a harsh tone, the condescending tone is another ot the dJ weapon
tboy
 

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men are "thinkers"
women are "feelers"
we rely on our feelings for everything.

if you approach a woman, she will associate you with however you made her feel when you spoke to her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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penkitten said:
You here for us to practice on I assume?

Ok. Let me take a shot.

Hey baby girl....(in a low humble tone)
:look in ya eyes: (right now even if you didnt like the 'hey baby girl' you cant dis me...cuz im looking right in your eyes...)
How ya doing? :casually bites lip:
:looks down at ya lips:
:looks back up at ya eyes:


......how im doing how im doing? good? :D
 

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joey trivonia said
"how you doin'
and it always worked for him.
 
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