"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do women mock us?

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Had this girl tell me, oh make sure u call me tomorrow,
ur just like other guys, i bet ur not gonna call,

when i called,

it turned out to be some dudes number.

Do girls get a rise out of mocking us guys?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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they do to those guys that ask for the number right away without building comfort..familiarity..rapport.
 
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gspshields2 said:
Had this girl tell me, oh make sure u call me tomorrow,
ur just like other guys, i bet ur not gonna call,

when i called,

it turned out to be some dudes number.

Do girls get a rise out of mocking us guys?
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Lol trolled.
 
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At least she didn't say her number is: "four five six... seven eight nine ten".
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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After you recieve the number......

"Ok now I'll call you so you can add me to your contacts"

This filters out a fake number

This filters out a woman saying "Who is this" when you call or text

Do it.
 
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Social_Leper said:
Not so sure about this. You can't really benefit it.

If its a genuine number then doing this makes you look kind of needy and unsure.

If its a fake then you don't gain anything. Its just unnecessarily awkward.

When you text a girl after a night out just saying "It's Ben" or whatever avoids the "Who is this" problem.
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Agreed.

If its fake than she has no interest in you. You won't gain anything from "tricking" her into giving you her number. That's just weird. An interested girl will gladly give you her number.
 
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Social_Leper said:
Not so sure about this. You can't really benefit it.

If its a genuine number then doing this makes you look kind of needy and unsure.

If its a fake then you don't gain anything. Its just unnecessarily awkward.

When you text a girl after a night out just saying "It's Ben" or whatever avoids the "Who is this" problem.
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You'll find out that things are only awkward if you make them awkward. I've done this plenty of times with guys and girls and its never been awkward.

And if its fake you do gain something. You know to next her immediately instead of getting a shocker later on. You know she straight up lied to your face and can next her then and there. As opposed to people like OP waiting a day or a week and then calling and being let down when they find out its a fake number.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Voice said:
Agreed.

If its fake than she has no interest in you. You won't gain anything from "tricking" her into giving you her number. That's just weird. An interested girl will gladly give you her number.
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Where did I mention tricking her into giving me her number?

You can just test at that moment if it is real or fake, if she lied and gave you a fake number you now know to next her immediately instead of calling the next day and finding out it was fake like the OP. Never mentioned anything about tricking anyone into giving anything.
 
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