you hear this ALL the time from ALL women(ones you are interested in, dating, fvcking, just friends with, aquaintinces, etc). they LOVE to tell anyone who will listen about how busy they are. i'm self employed and work anywhere from 50-60 hours a WEEK yet i still have time to do pretty much anything i want to do. women on the other hand can work some crap job for 40 hours a week and barely have time to fart it seems like. are men better time managers then women at everything? do they like to say this to sound important? i know they use it as an excuse when they havent talked to a guy in awhile who they have low interest in, but this isn't just about dating. i mean look on facebook at the statuses theyre posting. theyre sooooo busy. i like my work, i make damn good $$$ at it yet i dont feel the need to talk about my job or how busy i am every waking second of my life. i have never once told someone "you know ive just been so busy, life isnt fair boo hoo hoo, woe is me". so can anyone answer this?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
why do women like to brag about how busy they are?
- Thread starter Robert28
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
They are naturally doing what SoSuave teaches you on this site: appearing to be swamped with prior commitments so they instill in the guys they go out with "I deserve to be treated like a queen because I'm giving you my time."
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
What the peeps said above; they always say that, but they always always forget to add the second part of the equaltion: "...however, If I am interested, I will find the time...", so don't be put off by the mere mention that she is too busy. If she is not interested, that is your hint that she won't MAKE the time.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
Remember that girls act on their emotions?
They FEEL busy, therefore they will talk and act like they are.
They FEEL busy, therefore they will talk and act like they are.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
women haze
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I am on that smartphone app foursquares you know where you check in to different spots...:well anyways I have friended some chicks on there...
I observe their patterns and it is very interesting I must say. They are busy but not in the manner of busy that you think.
They work/Go to the grocery store, to the mall, see friends at different locations thinking they are doing big things and yet claim that they are oh so busy....Some may be validated in being busy because they also go to school
YET they CERTAINLY make time for that manicure, that pedicure, that 7-11 trip, even that bar time with the girls....
SO it is pure Bull SHYAT when they say they are busy....they are just saying it because they feel it like In the Mood said.
You should get foursquares and make as many female "Friends" on there as you can...you'll see what I am talking about
Just like above, if they are into you they will make that time for you guarenteed!!!
I observe their patterns and it is very interesting I must say. They are busy but not in the manner of busy that you think.
They work/Go to the grocery store, to the mall, see friends at different locations thinking they are doing big things and yet claim that they are oh so busy....Some may be validated in being busy because they also go to school
YET they CERTAINLY make time for that manicure, that pedicure, that 7-11 trip, even that bar time with the girls....
SO it is pure Bull SHYAT when they say they are busy....they are just saying it because they feel it like In the Mood said.
You should get foursquares and make as many female "Friends" on there as you can...you'll see what I am talking about
Just like above, if they are into you they will make that time for you guarenteed!!!
Alex DeLarge
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They want to brag and feel validated. That's why chicks post facebook statuses and pictures every 20 minutes.. So every guy will comment and give validation, and they use it as a warning to the guys they're actually interested in "HEY IF YOU DON'T TAKE ME OUT IM GONNA GET ANOTHER ONE OF MY 3493 FACEBOOK GUY FRIENDS WHO COMMENTED "YOU'RE SO SEXY" TO TAKE ME OUT".. It's just what women do.
No different than the nerdy guy who get his first girl friend and find a way to remind it to you any possible time.
you: do you like cofee?
him: yes, we drink often with my gf
you:the book store is too crowded
him:thankfully my gf doesnt like to read
Etc.
Girls are the same, empowerement, emancipation and all those other bvllsh1t women love finally gave them something to brag about, the model of "modern busy succesfull woman".
you: do you like cofee?
him: yes, we drink often with my gf
you:the book store is too crowded
him:thankfully my gf doesnt like to read
Etc.
Girls are the same, empowerement, emancipation and all those other bvllsh1t women love finally gave them something to brag about, the model of "modern busy succesfull woman".
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
This, my friends, is the undisputed truth. This happens with women of ANY/EVERY age!Alex DeLarge said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
P
perseverance
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People who feel the need to brag and boast are usually hiding some deep-seated insecurity issues. Also, I doubt a person who is really busy has time to brag about being busy.
Masculinity
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^ This.Zodiac said:
I wouldn't believe it all the time if I were you, though. It's a psychological game that women like to play so that they seem more high-value. If you really want to make sense of those little annoying, little apparently nonsense women do, I suggest you read this book: Book
Give them a taste of their own medicine. The techniques work for both sexes.