"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do women like the idea that men have age related fertility problems?

MatureDJ

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NOTE: I doubt that men have major age related fertility problems, and that most of the discrepancy is attributable to other factors.

Here is an article and the comments:

http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/07/08/fathers-age-is-also-a-factor-in-fertility/

Here are some comments:

This is good news for men who feel like they have until Charlie Chaplin age to have children (his last was rumored to have been when he was 77), and for women who have born the brunt of the dreaded biological clock’s tick alone until now.

This is fabulous news for me, who’s 30-something boyfriend just received this article via e-mail!
Now why would it be good news for men? That would be like my financial advisor telling me, "I've got good news, you're 401K is 10% lower than last month!"

And why would it be good news for her? Any problem in his fertility would make it less likely that SHE would get conceive.

Here's another one:

2. I’m happy for my single GFs that men finally have a sell-by date. It’s about time.
Is this just plain envy?

What do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mrRuckus

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No one wants to have someone have one up on them.

I don't see how this does anything like evening things up. How is a chick supposed to know if my swimmers are duds? I can plainly see in her sunken face that she's curdling. That's their real expiration date, not their ability who have kids so much.

And we can just save our sperm at a younger age anyway. I think.
 

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Sheer jealousy. The entire cause of the feminist movement. Women don't know what they want, but they definately don't want anyone to have "one up" on them.
 

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Another way to pressure men to marrry-supposedly we can't wait now. We need to hurry up and marry them. When one person is desperate, the other wins. Just trying to make us desperate too.
 

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Warrior74 said:
Sheer jealousy. The entire cause of the feminist movement. Women don't know what they want, but they definately don't want anyone to have "one up" on them.
That is it in a nutshell.
Women love feeling superior to men. Most of them actually believe it.
Any quality or attribute which demonstates male superiority is a felt by woman as a life threatening knife in the heart .
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hooligan Harry

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Women in their 30's want to start settling down because their biological clock is ticking. They have been ****ed and chucked countless times, their power career has either not blossomed or it turned out to be less romantic than they expected. The business lunches in Paris and ****tail evenings in Manhattan turned out to really be a 9-5 grind in a cubicle earning enough to cover the rent and the clothing accounts. Its not glamourous, it never will be and they start to review what they want in life.

As a lot of men hitting their 30's start to have more success with younger women in their 20's, they realise they dont have to settle down as quickly. They have a better sense of themselves and they are earning more money so they start to land more and more tail. Their options increase, at least for the men who have their **** together. Often, they were average run of the mill guys who had to work overtime to get laid when they were younger. Thats not the case for many of them anymore. They are banging the broads that would not give them the time of day 10 years back.

So whats left for the 30 something women are the 30 or 40 something men who are not really that much of a catch. The really good guys either got hitched to decent women a few years back OR they are currently cutting a swathe through so much ***** they dont need to settle down. Nice, average guys who have never really held much appeal for her but are the only thing that will settle for her are her only options. She ends up with the beta. So they settle for these chuds and have them raise their children, which are sometimes not their own, all while making their lives hell or leaving with half their **** a few years later when that fairytale turned out to be as disappointing as the career did

Even in their 30's though, they want to land the catch. They feel they are entitled to it. The problem is that they should have done it when they were younger and had a little more bargaining power. They know this. Instead of seeing fault in their own actions however, they resort to rather shaming men for being the sexist pigs they are. The fact that men have the audacity not to settle for them when they are ready to settle is something the self entitled ***** can never come to accept.

Ill keep ****ing and chucking the 23 year old hard bodies thanks. If the wonders of modern medicine can give you a kid at 40, Im sure at 55 Ill be able to father kids with some 25 year old tramp.
 
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