"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why do women like the idea that men have age related fertility problems?

MatureDJ

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NOTE: I doubt that men have major age related fertility problems, and that most of the discrepancy is attributable to other factors.

Here is an article and the comments:

http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/07/08/fathers-age-is-also-a-factor-in-fertility/

Here are some comments:

This is good news for men who feel like they have until Charlie Chaplin age to have children (his last was rumored to have been when he was 77), and for women who have born the brunt of the dreaded biological clock’s tick alone until now.

This is fabulous news for me, who’s 30-something boyfriend just received this article via e-mail!
Now why would it be good news for men? That would be like my financial advisor telling me, "I've got good news, you're 401K is 10% lower than last month!"

And why would it be good news for her? Any problem in his fertility would make it less likely that SHE would get conceive.

Here's another one:

2. I’m happy for my single GFs that men finally have a sell-by date. It’s about time.
Is this just plain envy?

What do you think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mrRuckus

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No one wants to have someone have one up on them.

I don't see how this does anything like evening things up. How is a chick supposed to know if my swimmers are duds? I can plainly see in her sunken face that she's curdling. That's their real expiration date, not their ability who have kids so much.

And we can just save our sperm at a younger age anyway. I think.
 

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Sheer jealousy. The entire cause of the feminist movement. Women don't know what they want, but they definately don't want anyone to have "one up" on them.
 

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Another way to pressure men to marrry-supposedly we can't wait now. We need to hurry up and marry them. When one person is desperate, the other wins. Just trying to make us desperate too.
 

jophil28

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Warrior74 said:
Sheer jealousy. The entire cause of the feminist movement. Women don't know what they want, but they definately don't want anyone to have "one up" on them.
That is it in a nutshell.
Women love feeling superior to men. Most of them actually believe it.
Any quality or attribute which demonstates male superiority is a felt by woman as a life threatening knife in the heart .
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hooligan Harry

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Women in their 30's want to start settling down because their biological clock is ticking. They have been ****ed and chucked countless times, their power career has either not blossomed or it turned out to be less romantic than they expected. The business lunches in Paris and ****tail evenings in Manhattan turned out to really be a 9-5 grind in a cubicle earning enough to cover the rent and the clothing accounts. Its not glamourous, it never will be and they start to review what they want in life.

As a lot of men hitting their 30's start to have more success with younger women in their 20's, they realise they dont have to settle down as quickly. They have a better sense of themselves and they are earning more money so they start to land more and more tail. Their options increase, at least for the men who have their **** together. Often, they were average run of the mill guys who had to work overtime to get laid when they were younger. Thats not the case for many of them anymore. They are banging the broads that would not give them the time of day 10 years back.

So whats left for the 30 something women are the 30 or 40 something men who are not really that much of a catch. The really good guys either got hitched to decent women a few years back OR they are currently cutting a swathe through so much ***** they dont need to settle down. Nice, average guys who have never really held much appeal for her but are the only thing that will settle for her are her only options. She ends up with the beta. So they settle for these chuds and have them raise their children, which are sometimes not their own, all while making their lives hell or leaving with half their **** a few years later when that fairytale turned out to be as disappointing as the career did

Even in their 30's though, they want to land the catch. They feel they are entitled to it. The problem is that they should have done it when they were younger and had a little more bargaining power. They know this. Instead of seeing fault in their own actions however, they resort to rather shaming men for being the sexist pigs they are. The fact that men have the audacity not to settle for them when they are ready to settle is something the self entitled ***** can never come to accept.

Ill keep ****ing and chucking the 23 year old hard bodies thanks. If the wonders of modern medicine can give you a kid at 40, Im sure at 55 Ill be able to father kids with some 25 year old tramp.
 
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