So I walked up to this woman at a bookstore here in Philadelphia last Friday and made a move on her. I supposedly got her phone number. She told me her name was Pam. Called her yesterday afternoon. The phone rang. I got her voice mail. The woman on the phone not only sounded different, but said in her voice mail that her name was Liz. I wasn't exactly sure what to do, but I left a message and my phone number nonetheless. Now, I'm not exactly sure what's going on here, but rather than give me a wrong phone number, if this were the case here, why not just tell me you have a boyfriend?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why Do Women Keep Doing These Things?
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