"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why Do Women Keep Doing These Things?

Frank2500

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So I walked up to this woman at a bookstore here in Philadelphia last Friday and made a move on her. I supposedly got her phone number. She told me her name was Pam. Called her yesterday afternoon. The phone rang. I got her voice mail. The woman on the phone not only sounded different, but said in her voice mail that her name was Liz. I wasn't exactly sure what to do, but I left a message and my phone number nonetheless. Now, I'm not exactly sure what's going on here, but rather than give me a wrong phone number, if this were the case here, why not just tell me you have a boyfriend?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Frank2500 said:
...Now, I'm not exactly sure what's going on here, but rather than give me a wrong phone number, if this were the case here, why not just tell me you have a boyfriend?
She didn't tell you that she had a boyfriend for the same reason she didn't tell you straight away that she wasn't interested in you.
 

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Frank2500 said:
rather than give me a wrong phone number, if this were the case here, why not just tell me you have a boyfriend?
Well, what's the difference - both are excuses and either one works.

And, this is actually pretty standard procedure for women in this country - so get used to it, lol.
 

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Re:

I think I'm getting really fared up with American women and their attitudes and superficiality at this point. I've been dealing with this crap for almost 10 straight years now. I think I should start searching for women of other ethnicities.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Frank2500

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How could you possibly determine whether or not you're interested in a guy when you don't even yet know anything about him? Very stupid.
 
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