"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why do women go to clubs

Alen-Delon

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oK WHAT DA FUK IS UP with chicks these days. i dont understand why do they go to clubs , bars, etc... All i see is chicks dancing with each other, you try to approach they all get fuking ****y and defensive, by the way i am talking about h8 and above. this shyt is ridiculous. any input ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheNonPedant

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im thinking they want their hit of ATTENTION
 

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they may say they just want drinks (then why don't they go to a gay bar)

they may say they just want to go for the music (if it's hip hop club night, THEY'RE LYING CAUSE HIP HOP SUCKS.. ) did you know i'm also a professional hip hop dj, i just turn on my radio and have 3 rap/hip hop stations to change music from.. i'm a super star dj.. if you go clubbing for house/trance music - you rock.

they may say they just want to dance (25% of female club goers ACTUALLY go for dancing, the rest is explained on the next lines)

mostly women go for the attention of men, they'll rarely go out with the guys that ask them at clubs unless he is super handsome/cute or if they're desperate.
 

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most hot women are attention *****s plain and simple..... They just go to the club to boost their ego.
 

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Here's a crazy thought: Maybe instead of wanting to pick up dudes every time, some go for fun :eek:



/sarcasm
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I understand you,they're all attention wh ores. That's why I like to come up to a girl in daytime and see them confused scared without their bit ch shield,and they're friends.
 

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for an ego boost.....

why do men go to clubs? to pick up chicks ...
 

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I go to a club for the following reasons:



A place to get even more hammered than I already am [I dont drink in moderation. I get hammered every few months instead ;)]

Have a laugh with my mates

Just feel like meeting a few new people

Pick up girls



Now, I'm thinking that although women are weird creatures sometimes, they probably go for the above reasons too.

[to pick up women :p]
 

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Maybe they get defensive when certain guys approach because they didn't find these guys attractive.
 

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ugh.. What is it with you people?

As cactus3178 has already said.. they go for FUN!

They spend all week in a 9 - 5 job, the weekend comes & it's a chance to let their hair down & let go.

What is so hard to understand? Do you really think that
women only go out to have a one night stand EVERY WEEK.

Or that they simply go out to get guys to aproach them & then turn them down simply to play with you & booast their egos?

It's not rocket science. People like to have fun with friends. Maybe if you guys weren't so obsessed with pulling women you may experiece what FUN is one day. & also what having some friends is like.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
they may say they just want drinks (then why don't they go to a gay bar)

they may say they just want to go for the music (if it's hip hop club night, THEY'RE LYING CAUSE HIP HOP SUCKS.. ) did you know i'm also a professional hip hop dj, i just turn on my radio and have 3 rap/hip hop stations to change music from.. i'm a super star dj.. if you go clubbing for house/trance music - you rock.

they may say they just want to dance (25% of female club goers ACTUALLY go for dancing, the rest is explained on the next lines)

mostly women go for the attention of men, they'll rarely go out with the guys that ask them at clubs unless he is super handsome/cute or if they're desperate.
please shut up
 

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Originally posted by DJ_Dork
they may say they just want drinks (then why don't they go to a gay bar)

they may say they just want to go for the music (if it's hip hop club night, THEY'RE LYING CAUSE HIP HOP SUCKS.. ) did you know i'm also a professional hip hop dj, i just turn on my radio and have 3 rap/hip hop stations to change music from.. i'm a super star dj.. if you go clubbing for house/trance music - you rock.

they may say they just want to dance (25% of female club goers ACTUALLY go for dancing, the rest is explained on the next lines)

mostly women go for the attention of men, they'll rarely go out with the guys that ask them at clubs unless he is super handsome/cute or if they're desperate.
Yes i quoted the above.

Man thats total bull**** picking girls up in clubs is regular especially if you want casual sex.
 

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The question shouldn't be why chicks go to clubs, but why some chicks rudely shoot men down that approach them when they're with thier girlfriends....

The reason really is because they feel like it will make them look "powerful", or "hot" if they shoot guys down, thus making them look that way to their girlfriends.
 

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You guys shouldn't be scared to approach chicks at clubs. I do it all the time and I'm quite used to it now. I don't even give a fukk about rejection anymore. Just go up and ask them for a dance at the club or whatever and if she says no, don't even bother analysing the reason you got shot down. Women don't make sense most of the time, just ask them out. I'm pretty good looking and I get shot down sometimes :D, I don't think looks have too much to do with it. Just dress trendy, smell good and speak to them with confidence. If the girl you ask out rejects you, ask her other good looking friends. There's always one willing to go at it ;)
 

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They are not so defensive as they seem. They just know when you are not really into them, and you're just desperate for a piece of meat.

When i do aproaches at a club this is what happens all the time:

- If my friends tell me to go aproach a girl, or if i just saw her in the moment and go there, im going there just randomly, and im really not interested in meeting the chick, i just tought she was ok and went there. Aproaching a girl when you're not really interested in meeting her takes off 90% of your game and confidence, so this is when i usually get rejected, or just small talk.

- When i check out a girl for a while, see who's she with etc, or if we exchange eye contact and so on, if i really want to meet her i NEVER get rejected at starters. I may not bang the girl in the end, but i'll have a nice sexy conversation with her, prolly dance with her, get her # if i dont get lucky right that night.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dude,

Asking why girls go to clubs is like asking why girls go to libraries. Rhetorical question. Fun + attention. Chicks are attention wh*res, let's admit it. Though I strongly believe most girls go for fun I also think some get easily carried away with it and end up doing things with guys they barely know.

You gotta ask the right questions:

Question: Why do girls go to clubs but do not want to be associated with a clubby (= slutty) image?

Answer: ASD

The woman's world is a paradox by definition.
 

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Originally posted by Craig Reeves
The question shouldn't be why chicks go to clubs, but why some chicks rudely shoot men down that approach them when they're with thier girlfriends....

The reason really is because they feel like it will make them look "powerful", or "hot" if they shoot guys down, thus making them look that way to their girlfriends.
Or maybe there just sick and tired off dumb afc guys approaching them all night :)
Put yourself into a girls shoes for a moment, and imagine being approached over and over by guys using the same lines, when all you want to do is chill and have fun with your friends. Now can you see why some girls may be *****y?
 
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