"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do women do this

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Why do they want you to care so much when they dump you? I feel like if you have become less interested in them for a while, they will fight hard to get you to care again, and then they will drop the hammer.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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They are sadistic by nature and seek drama/validation from it. In other words, nuts.
 

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They like to WIN and come out "on top". Its not really that complex.

Women have massive egos. Most men would be shocked to learn how much energy women put into manipulating men.

Women in general are *******s, but men don't like to hold them accountable for their sh!tty behavior. Instead they say things like "I don't understand women" or "Women are crazy" and they blame hormones, emotions and PMS. They believe "women can't help themselves" like small children -- poor babies. :crackup: :crackup:

Hmm.. NO.. women can totally help themselves and they have as much control over their behavior and emotions as men. They are just *******s.
 

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Ego is to the average woman what cocaine is to the average drug addict.

Many says that ego to women is as powerful as libido for men when it comes to take decisions, but I say its much more.
 

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Simple solution: Learn to differentiate mature women versus immature women.

Tendencies are: Hotter the woman -----> greater immaturity because they never had to work hard for much of anything in life.

Look for the golden lining in a well-rounded human being (and woman).

Exodus
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Who Dares Win said:
Ego is to the average woman what cocaine is to the average drug addict.

Many says that ego to women is as powerful as libido for men when it comes to take decisions, but I say its much more.
This:up:
 

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When I read the post, the first thing I thought was "ego." The other posters pretty much read my mind.

You see, it's not enough for her to break up with you. She wants to know that you were really affected by it. Her ego can't handle a guy walking away unaffected.
 

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yeah, all the above. Nothing would make her happier than for you to call her and tell her that she broke your heart and you're still in love with her. When she goes out with her new guy he'll ask her why she seems so happy. She'll reply with a big smile: "just had a really good day."

EDIT: Yeah, tried to rep Playherman but I have to spread some it around.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
They like to WIN and come out "on top". Its not really that complex.

Women have massive egos. Most men would be shocked to learn how much energy women put into manipulating men.

Women in general are *******s, but men don't like to hold them accountable for their sh!tty behavior. Instead they say things like "I don't understand women" or "Women are crazy" and they blame hormones, emotions and PMS. They believe "women can't help themselves" like small children -- poor babies. :crackup: :crackup:

Hmm.. NO.. women can totally help themselves and they have as much control over their behavior and emotions as men. They are just *******s.
Post du jour.
 

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in the 3rd world, great beauty means VERY little, and often, what WE think is beauty, the men THERE think is average or ugly! :) It works out PERFECTLY for us, man. Send such a girl $50 a month for a couple of months, and she genuinely CARES about keeping you in her "sights", and you are probably the ONLY such guy shell EVER have. If you can't make it into something real from THAT much of a head start, you are TOTAL lame.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GotED? said:
Simple solution: Learn to differentiate mature women versus immature women.

Tendencies are: Hotter the woman -----> greater immaturity because they never had to work hard for much of anything in life.

Look for the golden lining in a well-rounded human being (and woman).

Exodus
Well. This girl I lived with for two years, dated for about 3 months before we moved in, long story I will omitte to prevent a wall of text ( if you really want to ask.) Shes about a 6, nice asian slender body, 5'9'', tall for her region. Very well educated, china is very based on social connections, as far as i know shes going for her phd for business strategy. I agree with what the priors said, in terms of american girls. She was very, very submissive, so easy to game. But emotionally immature. I feel l like she was a non-cheating, non violent, non drug addict, bpd. Only had two chinese bf's before me. Honestly shes like fob, but ive known her before her adaption to american culture.
 

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phillies said:
Well. This girl I lived with for two years, dated for about 3 months before we moved in, long story I will omitte to prevent a wall of text ( if you really want to ask.) Shes about a 6, nice asian slender body, 5'9'', tall for her region. Very well educated, china is very based on social connections, as far as i know shes going for her phd for business strategy. I agree with what the priors said, in terms of american girls. She was very, very submissive, so easy to game. But emotionally immature. I feel l like she was a non-cheating, non violent, non drug addict, bpd. Only had two chinese bf's before me. Honestly shes like fob, but ive known her before her adaption to american culture.
Very nice tits. Size and shape. Tight fresh *****, barley touched.
 

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Women will also do this to you after rejecting you. A few times in my past I had women disappear on me only to resurface weeks or months later only to send me across town for a flake date.

I now have a hard and fast rule. I will not give a 2nd chance to any woman who rejects or ghosts me.
 
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