why do women bait men into sex talk?

[Robert28]

Why do women bait us into sex talk and then pull back the next day and all of a sudden lose interest? I've exchanged numbers with 3 different girls the past month and by the 3rd or 4th conversation they direct it towards sex. you could be talking about the moon, the grass, the skid marks in your underwear, whatever and the woman ALWAYS leads it to sex. then once you say to yourself "ok I'll play along", then here come the damn naked pics and they tell you what they want to do to you. what happens the next day? they feel like a slut and dirty, regret what they did and all of a sudden lose complete interest in you. they won't come right out and say it's your fault, but they hint that it is even though THEY are the ones who initiated it in the first place. i never asked for the naked pics, they just sent them, i never got them all riled up sexually, i just played along. is this a sh!t test or something? i mean if you dont talk about it she will think you arent attracted to her or youre gay, but if you do talk about it she feels slutty the next day and you lose out anyways. this happens with "christian women" who will be the freakiest of freaks via text message and on the phone, but then they run and hide behind God and have their "sins" forgiven and it's on with life like nothing ever happened, except they look at you like you're an evil heathen that made them sin and jeapordized their "innocence". nevermind the fact that she told you shed sucked half a dozen c0cks in her life and told you all these crazy fantasies she has(shes still waiting to have sex on her wedding night though.lol). never knew virgins who wanted to wait til marriage had such a wild imagination.lol it's also the sluts that do this, they've ridden every c0ck in town yet they feel slutty and shamed after talking about sex with you and sending you pics of them when you didnt ask for them.

so why even bring the sh!t up if youre going to feel like a slvt tomorrow? i mean i know robbing a bank is wrong but i'm not going to run out and do it today and tomorrow be like "oh damn i feel like a criminal, i never should have robbed that bank!".

 

[lockout]

Why do women bait us into sex talk and then pull back the next day and all of a sudden lose interest? I've exchanged numbers with 3 different girls the past month and by the 3rd or 4th conversation they direct it towards sex. you could be talking about the moon, the grass, the skid marks in your underwear, whatever and the woman ALWAYS leads it to sex. then once you say to yourself "ok I'll play along", then here come the damn naked pics and they tell you what they want to do to you. what happens the next day? they feel like a slut and dirty, regret what they did and all of a sudden lose complete interest in you. they won't come right out and say it's your fault, but they hint that it is even though THEY are the ones who initiated it in the first place. i never asked for the naked pics, they just sent them, i never got them all riled up sexually, i just played along. is this a sh!t test or something? i mean if you dont talk about it she will think you arent attracted to her or youre gay, but if you do talk about it she feels slutty the next day and you lose out anyways. this happens with "christian women" who will be the freakiest of freaks via text message and on the phone, but then they run and hide behind God and have their "sins" forgiven and it's on with life like nothing ever happened, except they look at you like you're an evil heathen that made them sin and jeapordized their "innocence". nevermind the fact that she told you shed sucked half a dozen c0cks in her life and told you all these crazy fantasies she has(shes still waiting to have sex on her wedding night though.lol). never knew virgins who wanted to wait til marriage had such a wild imagination.lol it's also the sluts that do this, they've ridden every c0ck in town yet they feel slutty and shamed after talking about sex with you and sending you pics of them when you didnt ask for them.

so why even bring the sh!t up if youre going to feel like a slvt tomorrow? i mean i know robbing a bank is wrong but i'm not going to run out and do it today and tomorrow be like "oh damn i feel like a criminal, i never should have robbed that bank!".

ur words turn me on i'll suck your **** now..

 

[floydb25]

Ha ha, lockout... As for the question: no idea. Maybe they just want validation and power; knowing they're in control and can turn you down. All by using the only power they have. They are probably just teases and attention *****s.

Wouldn't worry about it. These girls aren't worth the time, and are usually insecure, flakey, and immature. Not all of them do this, or try to get your hopes up - only to shoot you down. Or are all talk and no show. I've encountered these types before.

It seems like this is bothering you, which is no good. You can't control what anyone else does; therefore, its pointless to dwell on them. Losers will be losers. *****s will be *****s. Etc, etc. Your best line of action is to avoid them, and not give two-****s about what they do. She's a retard? A lot of people are. They're not worth getting angry over. Find someone who doesn't do this; isn't so difficult and indecisive; doesn't play so many crap games, or try to lead people on; etc.

 

[PapiChulo]

The same reason women dance lesbian. Showing off sexuality and AWing.

 

[Nutz]

Read this:

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/28/going-sexual/

Women going sexual is a form of beta bait. They're seeing if you'll jump at the chance because you lack sex. Think of it as a way of vetting for preselection and testing to see if you're alpha or beta. Sex talk needs to happen at some point, and I agree the sooner the better--if you're looking for a quick lay. Her bringing it up though is different and often times a test. When that happens you need to play it cool and be aloof, generally speaking.

 

[nismo-4]

It's a form of being an attention wh0re or a diktease or a power grab. Keep your distances.

If you wait too late to escalate, there's a high rate you will masturbate. Don't f**kin' procrastinate!!! If you take the bait because you can't wait, you gave her a state to tell you to masturbate. Don't f**kin' validate!!!

You must stay in control. Desperation and eagerness will kill you.

Remember that a woman's most powerful tool to attract men is her 'gina. Don't let it control you.

Case closed.

 

[5string]

Attention whoring at it's finest, followed by the all too common anti slut defense.

Nothing new here.