Jair213
Master Don Juan
Have to be emotional.
I wish my inner game was stronger. Damn bros dat feel sucks.
I wish my inner game was stronger. Damn bros dat feel sucks.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mike32ct
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There is this SS oversimplification that women are emotional and men are logical.
While it's true that men are capable of being very logical, we defintely have an emotional side too.
While it's true that men are capable of being very logical, we defintely have an emotional side too.
TheException
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The "men are logical; women are emotional" bit has more to deal with communication than everyday actions. It would be preposterous to say women are never logical and men are never emotional. But in terms of lets say arguing.....men will argue with facts while women will argue with their emotions....you have to read between the lines when arguing with a woman.(or better yet dont fight at all. Use emotional communication and just leave when disappointed or annoyed)Mike32ct said:
Becoming emotional is not necessarily a bad thing in and of itself. There is nothing wrong with becoming intimate with a LTR. Now the flip side is, there is definitely a problem with becoming too sappy with a plate...especially early on. That was my biggest obstacle in my personal growth. I always wanted to get certain plates into a LTR with me....and I would literally stress about negative thing that happened(ex. her not texting back). Once I got to the point, where I realized it should be the woman chasing to get ME IN A LTR....I progressed very rapidly.Jair213 said:
Jair213
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My bro's it just hit me.
The worst thing you could do is suppress those emotional feelings. DO NOT DO THIS. Let them be felt but handle them accordingly, control your emotional state, be logical. DON'T BE STUPID AND GO FULL BLOWN AFC. I think this is the hardest if not one of the hardest things a DON JUAN could phase in his JOURNEY. IF NOT THE HARDEST.
I know it's hard sometimes, it sucks, it will depress you, it will destroy you mentally if you let it, you will feel sick. You will start making unreasonable AFC decisions. Your thoughts and brain will start going on AFC overdrive. This is also known to lower your testosterone levels, so I am assuming you will start feeling like a complete bish.
Relax take a deep breath ask your self why are you feeling like this? Is it worth it feeling like this? Are you going to benefit anything from being in this emotional state? You need to invest your emotions on someone that is worth the investment. Just like money. Invest were you will profit not were you will become a banks complete bish. DON'T go Bankrupt.
Stay strong brah's.
The worst thing you could do is suppress those emotional feelings. DO NOT DO THIS. Let them be felt but handle them accordingly, control your emotional state, be logical. DON'T BE STUPID AND GO FULL BLOWN AFC. I think this is the hardest if not one of the hardest things a DON JUAN could phase in his JOURNEY. IF NOT THE HARDEST.
I know it's hard sometimes, it sucks, it will depress you, it will destroy you mentally if you let it, you will feel sick. You will start making unreasonable AFC decisions. Your thoughts and brain will start going on AFC overdrive. This is also known to lower your testosterone levels, so I am assuming you will start feeling like a complete bish.
Relax take a deep breath ask your self why are you feeling like this? Is it worth it feeling like this? Are you going to benefit anything from being in this emotional state? You need to invest your emotions on someone that is worth the investment. Just like money. Invest were you will profit not were you will become a banks complete bish. DON'T go Bankrupt.
Stay strong brah's.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Jair213
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