Why do we put women we find attractive on pedestals?

[mahon83050]

Before any of you go into a rant that I have been on here for 5-6 years with over 2000+ posts and I still post this stuff, hear me out. Yes, this site has helped me some what, but of course I am no master.

Maybe it is just me or maybe I have low self esteem. Everytime I see a chick who is attractive, I think EVERY GUY ON THE FACE OF THE PLANET ALSO WANTS HER!! and than you start thinking you don't deserve her. I still think this despite the fact attractive women are everywhere (especially your 7-8's)
and despite I have seen my fair share of guys who are shorter, uglier and fatter than myself with attractive women.

Does everybody else go through this same thing?

 

[KontrollerX]

I think we all go through that.

The natural AFC mindset makes us see beautiful women as immortal goddesses basically lol.

They must be treated with reverence and utmost pandering if ye wish to seek their favor or love!

So goes the mindset.

 

[mahon83050]

I think we all go through that.

The natural AFC mindset makes us see beautiful women as immortal goddesses basically lol.

They must be treated with reverence and utmost pandering if ye wish to seek their favor or love!

So goes the mindset.[/QUOT

i'm not even talking about knockouts (9's and 10's) but your typical 7's and 8's.

 

[foxhound87]

Lets think logically here, there are roughly say 6 billion people on the planet it is made up of roughly 51 percent female and 49 percent male. So there is roughly 3 billion pwomen on this planet, sure the vast majority of those women are fat, ugly, unnatractive, don't speak english or are not your type etc. So lets say you would possibly have sex with at least 100 million of them, that's a lot of *****.

I don't understand why guys put women on pedestals, there is just so much opportunity out there it isn't funny. It's hard wired into your brain to salivate over hot women, it's only natural. But put it this way, how many decent guys are out there???? Not many, so just do what you need to do. It's so much easier for a guy to find a hot girl than it is a girl to find a decent guy...

 

[mahon83050]

Lets think logically here, there are roughly say 6 billion people on the planet it is made up of roughly 51 percent female and 49 percent male. So there is roughly 3 billion pwomen on this planet, sure the vast majority of those women are fat, ugly, unnatractive, don't speak english or are not your type etc. So lets say you would possibly have sex with at least 100 million of them, that's a lot of *****.

I don't understand why guys put women on pedestals, there is just so much opportunity out there it isn't funny. It's hard wired into your brain to salivate over hot women, it's only natural. But put it this way, how many decent guys are out there???? Not many, so just do what you need to do. It's so much easier for a guy to find a hot girl than it is a girl to find a decent guy...

true, but the vast majority of these women would be too young or too old. most women start going downhill after age 35.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Before any of you go into a rant that I have been on here for 5-6 years with over 2000+ posts and I still post this stuff, hear me out.

Dude, you are SO lucky that you prefaced your post with this. :woo:

...Maybe it is just me or maybe I have low self esteem. Everytime I see a chick who is attractive, I think EVERY GUY ON THE FACE OF THE PLANET ALSO WANTS HER!! and than you start thinking you don't deserve her.

Esteem has a lot to do with it but you should consider why people can't seem to feel comfortable enough with who they are (notice that I didn't say that they have low self esteem). The problem that most people have is their obsession to compare things.

Consider your example, so see an attractive woman and what do you do? You think about your competition AND HE'S NOWHERE IN SIGHT!!! People have a propensity to gage who they are by who's around them, real or imagined it doesn't matter.

The thing that makes this option self defeating is that people always compare apples to oranges. In your case you are comparing yourself to some guy who has a different perspective of the world, different life experiences and obviously a different person than you. This is not to necessarily say that he's a better person, just different.

If people must compare themselves to someone, at least compare apples to apples. If you feel the need to gage yourself, compare yourself to who you were at another time in your life. How have you changed? What have you learned? What are you now capable of achieving?

No, it won't always show you in the best light but at least you can objectively gage yourself against something (someone) who is similar. Someone with the same experiences, perspectives and capabilities.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Very simple. Because you were conditioned to do so.

Not every guy puts a woman on a pedestal. There was a time women were considered property. Why were they thought of this way? Because men were taught that they should be so.

 

[Create Reality]

i think attractive women put THEMSELVES on pedestals.

 

[STR8UP]

Very simple. Because you were conditioned to do so.

i think attractive women put THEMSELVES on pedestals.

Ahhh.....the chicken or the egg?

Society has leaned us in that direction, but what puts men over the edge is women themselves. They place a high value on the pu$$y because they CAN, which causes the fire to feed itself.

This is why it's SOOO important to place a high value on yourself. You're starting out trying to climb a mountain from deep inside the mineshaft at the bottom. High self esteem will help you start out from a higher vantage point.

 

[ElStud]

I don't put attractive women on pedestals.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I'd put them on dental chairs.

 

[backbreaker]

it's the same way every commercial you see the "smart wife" who the man is "lucky fat slob is lucky to have". It's the men are "dogs" and women know "all of mens tricks" when in reality they don't even understand themselves and if you know what you are doing you can play most women better than Mozart played the violin


if I can sum up this site in one sentence, it's do the EXACT opposite of what everyone tells yout o do, and you will be a hell of alot closer to getting ass than then most guys

 

[Last Man Standing]

Why do we put women we find attractive on pedestals?

As you guys know I'm a little different - I put attractive virgins on a pedestal because they belong there - but I put attractive hors in my basement, in chains, naked - the basement is the anti-pedestal - because they belong there!

 

[backbreaker]

which is what I was trying to point out to some guy in another thread... you can't judge the moral character of a ****ing child, but nooooooo... becuase I won't date a 18 year Old I automatally only want to **** cougers, jaguars and any type of other wild cat out there.