Why do we always next low interest women?

[Dogbreath]

As a general rule we say that if a woman is being cold/standoffish/'low interest', just next her and move on. This seems like reasonable advice because no one wants to waste their time or demean them self by turning into an orbiter. The 'next' method is also the easiest and probably the most likely to lead to a positive outcome.

The question that I'm going to pose is, are there other methods and techniques besides nexting women that will re-attract and get you want you want?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Sure. Get her attention without making it seem like you are trying to. And subtley show her how great you are. Then continue to put a crap ton more energy into this than need be until eventually you just get tired of it and she realizes you're a fake and leaves you. Then come back here asking us how to reattract her after you "slipped up".

This has happened too many times now.

 

[El Payaso]

are there other methods and techniques besides nexting women that will re-attract and get you want you want?

The purpose of nexting isn't to re-attract women. It is to not waste your time.

Trying to re-attract a woman is a waste of time.

 

[dustmuffin]

If she isn't interested in me why would I want to waste my time and energy on her? Next and forget about her or you could send her flowers and profess your unending love for her while serenading her outside her house maybe that might get her interested....ehhh on second thought next and move on. Spend time on women that actually want to f uck me equals time well spent.

 

[devilkingx2]

well look at it like this

if you cold approah 100 women, you'll get 50 numbers, 25 of which will be real and will answer your texts, 10 of which aren't just wasting your time and will go out with you at least once, 5 of those 10 will eventually have sex with you.

would you be concerned with the other 95 girls? if you don't put women on a pedestal you'll realize that the 5 you got are the same as the 95 you didn't, so you didn't miss out on anything you didn't get.

but in theory, you can re-attract a girl. in practice you would need her to either still be willing to go out with you or still be willing to talk to you, if she's not your chances are 0%, but if she won't go out with you but will still talk your chances are low, single digits, but still there.

the other and main thing you need, is for whatever caused her interest to drop to be fixable/temporary, but you'll never know what made her interest fall, if you fvcked up you can fix it if she lets you, but what if you didn't fvck up?

what if it's not your fault at all? you can't really fix her ex coming back or her deciding she's a lesbian or a hotter guy starting to talk to her that day, etc. and you'll never know if you fvcked up or if her ex came back.

main point: it's not worth the effort and not likely to work out

but in the ideal scenario where she still talks to you and you know where you went wrong, simply game her good, be alpha (unless your problem was being too alpha), don't make any new mistakes and fix the old ones

 

[Bingo-Player]

ehhh its a tricky one

ive nexted girls prematurely in the past only to discover they were attracted to me i just slightly intimidated them with my ****y personality

on other occasions ive wasted months chasing pieces who I knew deep down aren't interested

depending on the girl and how interested I am in her I will allow for a certain level of low interest in the opening stages of the game

if she warms to me great if she doesn't then I move on

 

[Who Dares Win]

Even before avoiding to waste time, nexting an uninterested girl is a safety manouver to save your mental health, energy and resources.

You should next with the same coldness and normality with which you skip a queue on a supermarket after you notice the cashier is dumb and slow while the next one is fast and doesnt bother clients.

 

[Desdinova]

I've been able to successfully raise interest in women who were on the fence about me. It really depends on the feedback I'm getting from them. If I'm getting text responses a day later, then I don't see any hope in raising her interest, at least not at that moment. I may take advantage of an opportunity in the future, and some women just need a bit more time and exposure to you to make up their mind.

If it's a chick that you see every once in a while in your social circle, then just put the idea of seducing her on the backburner. NEVER focus all your energy on trying to raise her interest. Raising a woman's interest should be passive, and you should have other women that you're working on. If one falls off the cliff or is about to, cut off your interaction with her.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Thinking about it, over the years, 'NEXT' has evolved to something you passively do to an uninterested woman, opposed to what it should be, which is actively doing it for yourself (or the 'NEXT' woman.).

The emphasis shouldn't be an embittered reaction to lack of interest from Girl A, but rather continued positive proactive pursuit of your lifestyle and Girls B, C, D, X, Y and Z.

When we do this, without fuss and nonsense, often a girl will come back around if you've left a lasting impression. But our attitude should be take it or leave it.

I rarely if ever discount a woman completely from my future unless it is me that is uninterested, and/or she's just clearly batsh!t insane.

 

[Poon King]

Barking up the wrong tree is idiotic.

If a man values his time.. he doesn't waste it on women with low interest. There is no benefit to pursuing women who DON'T LIKE YOU. All you do is waste your time and get exploited. Women love attention and they will gladly take it. If a woman believe's your interest level is so high that you are blind to her LACK of interest.. she will use it to her benefit to exploit you.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

We next them for the same reason we get rid of or deprioritize free loading, time and resource wasting male friends.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I'll never next a woman unless she is violent. There is no other reason to cut a girl off.

I just change how I interact with her.

If she flakes on me, then I'm just not meeting her places anymore. My place until she gains my trust again.

If she gets clingy, then come over to bone and kick her out later.

If she loses interest then I'll loose interest in her also. Let's say she calls me after going ghost for a while? I'll just let her know the next place I'm going to be and hang up quick. No, how are you doing crap for her. If she shows up maybe I'll show her a little interest and try to close the deal and move on. If she lost interest then she's bored of you, time to kick up interactions with sex! Gotta learn how to talk to girls. Do you know how to act disinterested? Can you do it on demand? Stand in front of the mirror, is it convincing? Dealing with women is almost like acting. You have to make them understand how you feel by how you talk to them.

Banging girls in social circles is all about matching your interest level to hers. Nexting is all about differences in interest or loss of control in the relationship. We must harvest all the puuussy we can when we can because you never know what will come by during a dry season.

Open door policy is teh best policy.

 

[dude99]

As a general rule we say that if a woman is being cold/standoffish/'low interest', just next her and move on. This seems like reasonable advice because no one wants to waste their time or demean them self by turning into an orbiter. The 'next' method is also the easiest and probably the most likely to lead to a positive outcome.

The question that I'm going to pose is, are there other methods and techniques besides nexting women that will re-attract and get you want you want?

Your subject says "low interest girls"

Why would want to put effort into something that is pretty much guarenteed to bring you frustrating results.

Is there another way? Yes. Go out with women who are interested insteadof chasing women who aren't.

 

[dude99]

Barking up the wrong tree is idiotic.

If a man values his time.. he doesn't waste it on women with low interest. There is no benefit to pursuing women who DON'T LIKE YOU. All you do is waste your time and get exploited. Women love attention and they will gladly take it. If a woman believe's your interest level is so high that you are blind to her LACK of interest.. she will use it to her benefit to exploit you.

Thank you.....