Why do very attractive women go out to bars and clubs?

[bigdave17]

We all know that it's not to meet anybody - I see them turn down everybody who approaches them, even the guys who are attractive and in shape


What's the point of going to a loud, annoying bar if you have zero interest in meeting anybody?

 

[Atom Smasher]

Attention, equally as essential to them as food and water.

 

[Poonani Maker]

To gather facebook footage. Look at me, I'm having fun. Some like to "let their hair down" and dance, like if at said bar there's a band playing live shows songs chosen will encourage women to dance in the middle to be tha "center of attention." Desperation. If past 25 years old, then women who are still not attached will start feeling the pressure to find a man to create a spawn. Before 25 women act how they really are, after 25 you're getting a female that's not acting her true self really and after she's got you, she'll change to her true wretched self.

It's the madonna girls just wanna have fun why most go to bars but of course these days the cellphone is in CONSTANT use which is repulsive to me being from the 80s/90s.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Sometimes people want to go to bars and clubs without the intention of f*cking?

I go to bars all the time because I want to drink with friends, or because I just want to relax with nice food at the end of a long day. Not just because I'm constantly looking to hook up with someone.

 

[RangerMIke]

This is a good question, I honestly do not know. I do suspect this has a lot ot do with the environment. Loud clubs and poor lighting favors women with little depth of personality with the opportunity to get free drinks and low risk attention.

Of course there are alway exceptions, but in my experience I have found the hotter a woman is, the worst her personality and the less intelligent she is. In a nightclub, the noise makes it impossible to have a conversation... it goes both ways... she can hide from you the fact that she is nothing outside of her looks, and you as a man can not influence her with your words. What you say is irrelevant because what you are saying is not discernable, so she can focus on your body language and how you show up, which is a better indicator of who you really are. The poor lighting and alcohol takes away from any physical flaws she might have... you always have to remember, no matter how hot a chick is, SHE thinks she has flaws and she will spend a great deal of effort to hide whatever it is about her she does not like.

 

[IKO69]

Attention and validation...but it's not true they don't want to meet anybody. Sometimes it happens.

This is why you don't go in looking to ho chase. You do that and you set yourself up to get hurt, which I suspect lots are doing. The women that want you to talk to them will clear a path for you.

 

[Tilex]

Because extroverts need to unwind and get loose after being stuck inside an office building 5 days a week and constantly dealing with uptight coworkers.

You belong in the introverts category if you think bars/clubs/raves/festivals are bad places to meet people.

Take a wild guess which one these two groups dominates the online dating market?