"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why do they follow us?

DJHoolahoop

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Anyone get this? Because when I see it more and more I wonder why do they do it? Can they not help it or something? Is this what everyone is talking about? And by that I mean why girls follow a man who takes lead. What is it about a man that makes girls crumble to pieces for him? Why do they do it so willingly?

I recently read a post about a guy that mentioned pretending that the girl you like is like a pet. The more I think about it and the more I see it happening AND the more it makes me wonder what crazier things I can do with girls AND get away with. I'm almost getting the hint that the daring I become, the more attractive I am to the opposite sex.

Or am I just making things up here?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kaptain

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I think the question you need to ask is why does anybody, not just women, follow someone?

It is easier to be led than to lead yourself to a destination.
 

DiMallio

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its all about confidence my friend... confident people lead naturally....

women like to be lead so in a way (and i'm not bein sexist here) they can be treated like pets e.g walking your dog..... by callin them pet names and stuff...

its not somethin i use regularly, just coz it doesnt fit my style but i've heard it can work well...
 

ScrewIt

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That's why man has the **** and woman has the *****.

As long as she knows you're a fully capable person who's able to find his way around using his own resources/knowledge a woman will gladly follow you to any destination ...unless you decide to jump off a bridge.

Besides, if a woman has high IL in you, she'll gladly go anywhere as long as she's with you. They like the idea of their man being reliable. Kind of like him being the pole and her leaning against that.
 

dipset_mafia

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come to think of it.. I do treat my ladies like pets. or all women im interested in like pets....

it does work. heres some similarities -> cat vs. woman

cats like to be petted -> women respond to kino, and u can fvck them.
a cat will avoid people that give it too much attention -> women avoid clingy chumps
a cat will follow you around the house -> so will a woman
a cat likes to be played with, teased -> so do women
a cat will meow/whine for attention -> enough said.
if you train your cat, it will come when called, sh!t in the litter box -> if you train your woman, she'll come when called, and show respect

so when you're woman meows at you, look down at her and make a face that you would make to a cat, tilt your head, and say, "what's up buddy, what's wrong?" ... but when the cat meows too much what do you do? you either go pick it up and pet it, hoping it will shut up, or you ignore it..

you can't teach an old pet new tricks, so train your woman when you first bring her home.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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