"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why do they c0ckblock?

ScrewIt

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Why do friends ****block??

tell you the truth, if they ****block, then they're not really your true friends.
i know a couple of AFC guys (wouldnt really call them friends, hangout w/them once in a while), if they ever had a chance/were near me if i were around a girl or # close on her.....I'D KNOW for a fact they'd fvckin c0ckbl0ck me in an instant and try ot put me down to make me look bad.

these type of guys you couldnt trust them even if your life depended on them.

I look at it this way, whenever i'd go do a # close, i'd either do it alone or with a different group of friends. # close is not always 100% successful, plus the fact that ****s like those are around you at a time like that is pointless.
if i had my own company, i bet they'd do all they could to make me go bankrupt. they'd rather see my demise than see me be more successful than them.

i dont even have to test them, and based on their personalities and attitude. i can already foresee if they're future c0ckblocks.

but the question is why?? why the fvck u gonna ruin another guy's game when you do nothin to improve your own.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don of Truth

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So very wrong

True friends will help each other with the ladies.
Good luck finding those "true friends"! lol

All the guys I talk to, if you bring up the subject of "wingman" or helping each other out with girls ...it's all negative and downhill from there.
 

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jealousy

Jealousy, pure and simple.
I think it goes back to the idea that there's only one alpha male in the group, and the fact that you're macking HB's proves that you're the ace.
 

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I agree. Jealousy and they think that they have a chance after CB'g you.

I know a guy that will trash you when your back is turned. I mean, we'd be at a bar. I'd be talking to a couple of hotties. Doing pretty good. As soon as I go for a beer, he starts bad mouthing me to the girls. (the girls told me later). I'm like what the F? Does he think that it makes him look better to bad mouth me? It didn't ! The girls didn't want to have anything to do with the guy after that. They thought if he's willing to bad mouth me, no telling what he'd do to them...

He's not a friend. He's some guy from the gym... I stay away from him now... What goes trough these idiots heads?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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duke007

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Chicks hate bad-mouthing

I was talking to a girl at a party whose bf was there. She liked me, I was not obviously trying to mack her but was being laidback and confident.
My mate came up and he really likes the girl, problem was he was drunk. So he starts bad-mouthing her bf saying stuff like, "he said blah blah music sounded like clown music", "He has no taste in music", "He's no good for someone like you"

After he left, we were laughing about him trying to badmouth the bf. She resented that. I never even mentioned the bf, and she liked me for it. (started kinoing me later cause I started acting c+F, felt kinda awkward but pimplike at the same time!)
 

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not only chicks, i believe most ppl hate it in general. if that someone talks about him behind their back, what makes you think they wont talk about you next time?

but yea usually no one wants to be a part of the gossip.

just mind your own damn business, that's basically how everyone wants it. or expects of you.

so i nthe old saying...what goes around comes around.

i think they do it so you cant outcompete them. even if they dont succeed, they'd rather not have you succeed either. and as you all said, jealousy.

they think they're successful when they try to badmouth you, but the fact is they just make themselves look worse and a fool!!
 

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It is definately jealousy.

I was recently alone with a girl in her room when 2 of her female friends burst in (college dorm) *and would not leave*. Even after both myself and my girl stopped talking to them they just sat there, not moving.

It was very obvious to them what was about to happen, I was feeling my girl up while they were there. Then after they left one even came back! Plain and simple: they wanted want my girl was going to get. The blocking doesn't stop there: while I was making out with her when we where *finally* alone the one friend kept calling every 5 minutes. We ignored the calls of course. The whole blocking lasted a good 3 hours.

Don't suggest I shouldn've tried for a three/foursome, both the other girls were not attractive. I hear your frustration.

- HV
 

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They do as such because deep down inside they are women. Women are irrational and emotional by nature.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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