Why do some women need to know OTHER chiks like you..before they surrender the pvssy?

[rakishness]

Has anyone else noticed this? Why do girls need know other females like you before they surrender that pvssy. I mean...if you like someone...who cares what other people think. Most guys don't care what their friends think of a chick as long as he likes her.

I'll use me as a case and point. I love women with BIG ASSES, thick thighs, and tiny waist. Even though many guys out there might find these features on a girl as REPULSIVE. I FVCKIN LOVE IT. Can't get enough of it. DAYUUM.

Anyways....back to my point....I wouldn't care if any guy in the whole entire world didn't like those features... I would still want to hit it.

Does anyone know why chicks behave this way?

 

[Poonani Maker]

Because they thrive off of jealousy. It's the way their brains are wired. Commitment is also a biggie. Our male brains are wired heavily towards sex. A woman's brain has a very small inclination towards sex, until she sees that she can't get what she wants (purse/shoe shopping ect.). Read your bible.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Its called SOCIAL PROOF

When you are being social proofed, your considered high value. So as a result the girl is more attracted to you. A girl can't get to know every guy so they become more in tuned to you if your seen with other women or anybody that will make her consider you as high value.

Conveying that your high value is what actually gets you laid.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

They have egos too y'know. They don't want to sleep around with anyone who noone else wants to sleep with.

 

[Raikojo17]

They have egos too y'know. They don't want to sleep around with anyone who noone else wants to sleep with.

very true. put simply

alot more simple than this social proof stuff.

it's and ego thing. how many guys here would sleep with a fat ugly beast that no other guy would touch?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

very true. put simply

alot more simple than this social proof stuff.

it's and ego thing. how many guys here would sleep with a fat ugly beast that no other guy would touch?

I was thinking the same thing when. Fuglie women can get laid because there seems to always be a group of guys who just want sex. No question asked as long as they get them some. Ever consider that some of these women would possibly take better care of themselves health wise if they knew that they couldn't get laid unless they changed their appearance?

 

[jamescr73]

I was going to make a thread on this, but since its on this same subject Ill throw in a question.

Theres this chick i took out a week and a half ago, and she seemed pretty in to me. we had a lot of fun that night, and i had kino going, i had cf rolling, the date went utterly perfect. So i went for the kiss close at the end of the night, and she turned and said "hey now, i dont kiss on the first date", but playfully not said in a mean manner or upset in any way. Im thinking, what are we 14? I made a ****y comment about her being bad deep down inside or something. Problem is, this chick is really shy. So i found out from a girl she works with (a friend of mine), that all the girls from work are going out this saturday to a bar to watch a local band play. My friend invited me to go up there, cause the chick will be there. So should I show up with a date, or alone? I know a chick thats a solid 9 that would go with me just to hang out and have a good time. So this girl that i took out, shes being kinda distant. shes really shy though. Id give her a 7.5. So if i show up with this friend of mine thats a 9, think it would go good or bad? I see it going either way really.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I think that, it would be Absolutely good, jamescr73, but say Anything at the right time to some of the people around you, guys And gals. Don't cling to one. Flow in the fluff and be interconnected with the crowd. As long as your mouth is moving every now and then, you'll be in the flow of the show. It's best not to over-talk, for me at least. I do have canned statements/material, but I'll usually just be observant about the women in my environment (what they're wearing, and comment on it, if her bra/panties are showing, call her on it). Observe your environment, neg initially, reward good behavior (validating herself, apologies, etc.). Walk away from a woman if she's being "suspicious" "*****y" "mean" I mean if they're being that way why don't they get away from me (if I'm there first). But social proof is soo important, and has cost me in the past, even though I am soo damn good looking and lovable and loving and respectable at work etc.

People are strange when you're a stranger, and rightfully so, I guess but, social proof keeps you from having to validate yourself (gives you less work to overcome the points against you from the start of the interaction or convo with a woman). Sometimes I'll just ask people if anyone's sitting here and sit next to them and eventually we start talking and it looks like we're together (especially to the new girls and boys coming into the bar).

 

[jamescr73]

well i just talked to my friend, and she told me that bringing a girl with me would be a bad move. I guess shes getting a vibe from the chick that she likes me or whatever. My friend is affraid that bringing a girl with me would spook her off. Of course this is advice from a girl, so now im right back where i started

 

[jamescr73]

so my friend called me up at 1:30, half drunk leaving a bar. She told me she was up there with the girl from work for another girls birthday party. I guess she figured out why shes being kinda shady. Shes starting to see another guy that works up there. So she recommended I bring a date this will be fun. Ill have a FR soon, with the whole jealousy factor and see what happens. Cause the girl im bringing is going to blow them all away

 

[BuckwildNYC]

so my friend called me up at 1:30, half drunk leaving a bar. She told me she was up there with the girl from work for another girls birthday party. I guess she figured out why shes being kinda shady. Shes starting to see another guy that works up there. So she recommended I bring a date this will be fun. Ill have a FR soon, with the whole jealousy factor and see what happens. Cause the girl im bringing is going to blow them all away

Wouldn't it be better if YOU blew everybody away?

 

[chance-]

... and that's why women are fuked in the head. they want you because girls hang out with you? yes, true... but fuking stupid. girls are dumb. when you want them, they don't want you. when you push them away, they want you.

i bet so many of you guys just wish you could be yourself and be mr nice guy. but nope. girls have to make us jerks to get their attention.

beautiful, yet complicated creatures.