"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do some women give their real phone numbers wihout an intention to speak to you?

redvoodoo

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it empowers them and makes them feel and look good to have a man call her even though she isnt interested.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don Phenom

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Ms Thang, I have had girls give me their #s and I didn't call . But there was only one time I asked a chick for her number and didn't call, but see, I never said I would. I wanted her # so I could keep in contact. But I wasn't interested in her romantically, and I never gave any indication I was. I think that's vital, some how let the girl know what your intentions are before, or after you ask for the digits. It seems like it would help both sides in the long run.

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Don Phenom-Unphasable, you couldn't make me lose my cool if you set me on fire. I will not lose!
 

lordclem*

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don Phenom
thanks for clearing the sh!t up i do the same when i meet people who i think i might like to keep in contact with or old friends. women often know when men like then and he means when hes asks for the #
so if hes just sees u as cool,this does not mean he likes u
i also have never meet any men who do this for any other resean, most men dont do that dumb sh!t.
my regards
MsThang
Don Juanita
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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