Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why do some women feel like they own you?

teddy

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In the interest of trying new skills, I told this woman who I hung out with a couple times (she is in a LTR) that I'm not friends with taken women. BF is busy, she's in love with him, so she kept trying to do BF activities with me and essentially turn me into her gay best friend.

Which is whatever. I just wanted to see how she'd react if I laid that line on her.

Well, this is how she reacted: bat**** crazy.

Went on and on on how she has many guy friends and it's never a problem, gave me attitude the rest of the time, acted like I was the guilty party even though I did nothing wrong.

Keep in mind, I only saw her twice in a span of 5 months. Her reaction seemed way out of proportion of how long we knew each other.

I'm glad I did this bc now I realized she's crazy and that if this went any further who knows what would happen.

Why do women act like they own you or you owe them something? I mean, what is it to her what I do? I barely even know her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She's not acting like she owns you or that you owe her anything. All of her guy "friends" are simply beta orbiters and she's testing you to see if you are one as well. Next her and move on to other plates. Her reaction sounds pretty normal, actually.
 

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If she has so many "guy friends".. why is she so pressed over you?

Its possible she was setting you up the be the guy she "jumps ship" to.

Some women can't stand being single so they'll stay with a guy they don't like until they find a replacement.

Either way.. the b!tch has issues and wants everything on her terms. Typical self-centered modern c*nt. Don't analyze it too much. She didn't get her way so she is crying like a baby. Simple as that.

Move on. Keep spinning plates. :up:
 

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dajinn said:
Her reaction sounds pretty normal, actually.
Strangely enough, it does.

PlayHer Man said:
Its possible she was setting you up the be the guy she "jumps ship" to.

Some women can't stand being single so they'll stay with a guy they don't like until they find a replacement.

Either way.. the b!tch has issues and wants everything on her terms. Typical self-centered modern c*nt. Don't analyze it too much. She didn't get her way so she is crying like a baby. Simple as that.

Move on. Keep spinning plates. :up:
^^^^^Perfectly well said.

Sounded to me like you were her fill in for the BF and she was doing some test runs. Depending how you handled these experiments she was either going to either turn you into an orbiter or her next boyfriend. Either way, she wanted to be the one to make the decision with what was going to happen between you two.

Nicely played.
 
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There was a girl who had a crush on me but had a boyfriend so she would try to turn me into her "best friend" by constantly trying to chat with me. However, I wasn't attracted to her. I was attracted to her sister. When I told her that her sister is really fine, she got depressed and was like "You're not supposed to like my sister". I was shocked and asked why? She said "Because...because..." and didnt finish her sentence. F**king sluts want to have their cake and eat it too. She got incredibly jealous when I started talking to her sister and eventually started going out. Her sister is much normal compared to her crazy, greedy a$$.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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teddy

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DarkDetective50 said:
There was a girl who had a crush on me but had a boyfriend so she would try to turn me into her "best friend" by constantly trying to chat with me. However, I wasn't attracted to her. I was attracted to her sister. When I told her that her sister is really fine, she got depressed and was like "You're not supposed to like my sister". I was shocked and asked why? She said "Because...because..." and didnt finish her sentence. F**king sluts want to have their cake and eat it too. She got incredibly jealous when I started talking to her sister and eventually started going out. Her sister is much normal compared to her crazy, greedy a$$.
Yeah I felt like I was on the road to being the gay bf
 

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teddy said:
Why do women act like they own you or you owe them something? I mean, what is it to her what I do? I barely even know her.
She only flipped out because she thought she had power over you when she really didn't. Instead of her playing you, you basically flipped the script and played her- so to speak.

Some women don't like it when the man is better at the game than they are. ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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