"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Why do some people "make it" here at Sosuave and some people don't...your thoughts?

Thread starter abbas
Start date Nov 7, 2005

i am me

Master Don Juan

Mar 31, 2006

/\dont give up. thats why some people make it and you're not. u can gimme an excuse like "i'm an introvert" but all thats gonna do is keep u in the same position as u are. maybe u are more socially challenged the rest of us...that just makes things more of a challenge and itll make things sweeter when u suceed

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.