"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do Some People Look Younger Than They Are? Does Sports Make a Person Look Younger

Frank2500

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This is a topic I've always been curious about. Why is it that certain people seem to look much younger than their actual ages? In my case for instance, I'm 33 years old but most people tell me that if I didn't reveal my age to them they would have assumed I was between 25 and 27. I rarely ever drink alcohol. In fact, I could drink alcohol just once a year on a special occasion, if not once in a while socially. I drink more water, natural juices, green tea and eat fruits. There's a firm belief especially in most African countries that most people who do sports frequently (including working out) tend to look much younger than they actually are. They point to some of the continent's famous soccer stars including some international ones as well who are said to be very much older than their supposed official ages and yet look much younger than their real ages. Do you guys think sports and working out do honestly make people look younger?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Frank2500

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I see. Soccer players seem to be the most blessed when it comes to that...given the intense aerobics they do to stay in shape.
 

soshdog

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The truth is that it's mostly genetics. Mom looks young for her age, so does dad, and I look even younger for my age, although I have put my body through more havoc. Also, certain ethnicities are known for looking younger for their age, providing more evidence that it is genetics, much in large skin characteristic genetics.
 
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