Naughty Ninja
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I'm not getting it. Why do some of you dudes get so butthurt over feminist nonsense? It's like the more they try to "prove" their "points" the more they admit they fear and are envious of men. It's actually amusing!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bit behind on current events eh? Maybe it's time to get off internet dating sites and have a look at the damage this ideology based on self extinction is actually causing.Naughty Ninja said:I'm not getting it. Why do some of you dudes get so butthurt over feminist nonsense? It's like the more they try to "prove" their "points" the more they admit they fear and are envious of men. It's actually amusing!
( . )( . ) said:Bit behind on current events eh? Maybe it's time to get off internet dating sites and have a look at the damage this ideology based on self extinction is actually causing.
Look at it this way, all those land whales that you and I are paying for with 3 kids to 3 different baby daddy you have to weed through on POF? This is a product of that "feminist nonsense".
Well good for you. I have a son now and am actually invested to give a phuck though now.Naughty Ninja said:Sorry to break it to you but you or I cannot control what these chicks are going to do. If they want to be trash. That's on them.
Unfortunately you and I will have to pay for their nonsense. Life isn't perfect nor fair. I'm not going to drive myself insane over it nor need to "medicate" myself from stressing over crap. Like it or not.
The elite put feminism into place as a means of dividing men and women, destroying the family, bringing socialism to the forefront, and dragging us closer to one world government...The CIA funded MS magazine..Gloria Steinem admits it...ask yourself why.( . )( . ) said:. Come to think of it I don't think there is one single major problem we are currently experiencing in the West that can't be tracked back to feminism (read:banking elite) as the root cause.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Care to elaborate? I'm curious about that one.( . )( . ) said:Come to think of it I don't think there is one single major problem we are currently experiencing in the West that can't be tracked back to feminism (read:banking elite) as the root cause.
In short? An ideology used to destabilize society, to destroy the traditional family unit and the strength found therein. Created to take power from the people and to make the masses reliant on Government control, to divide and rule as they say.EastWind said:Care to elaborate? I'm curious about that one.
He does make some good points, but doesn't he strike you as a bit... conspiratorial?( . )( . ) said:In short? An ideology used to destabilize society, to destroy the traditional family unit and the strength found therein. Created to take power from the people and to make the masses reliant on Government control, to divide and rule as they say.
http://www.angryharry.com/esWhyGovernmentsLoveFeminism.htm
Leaves us here at present:EastWind said:So where does that leave us?
I'll spare you where it's left the train wreck that is "modern women".( . )( . ) said:* Men constantly portrayed as incompetent,goofy douchebags by mainstream media, can't do anything right without the firm mature hand of a woman.
* No reproductive rights. A woman can do whatever she wishes with a child, it's her body her choice, not so when it comes to men, he is to "man up" and pay regardless or feel the wrath of the state and society or else be shamed "deadbeat dad".
* Next to no parental rights.
* Gender biased legal system.
* Male suicide 4 times more likely than female and rising every year.
* The "disposable male" phenomenon (women and children first) that is still indoctrinated into young boys but without any rewards of the past.
* Highest non interest education dropout rate for boys ever seen, courtesy of a fem-centric education system (a for women by women learning curriculum in other words)
* An over abundance of emasculated and clueless enablers with quite literally half the testosterone levels of their forefathers.
* Men's achievements and sacrifices throughout history continually downplayed, especially the sacrifice of literally millions of men's lives during wars of the past and present.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
There's certainly a lot in what you and him and saying that is worthy of discussion, but I choose to be very careful with conspiracy-like claims.( . )( . ) said:Leaves us here at present:
I'll spare you where it's left the train wreck that is "modern women".
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.