"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why do so many women think that slender women are "unhealthy looking"?

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I was reading this article about newlywed LeAnn Rimes. in which there is a nice sexy pic of her. Evidently, most of the women reading this think that she is too skinny and therefore unhealthy.

http://www.popeater.com/2011/05/30/leann-rimes-bikini-photo/

Is it that a proper looking, high sexual market woman is a threat to all the chunky women out there?

A lady friend of mine would always say the same thing. (BTW, she's 5'6" 260# now, and her husband traded her in for a woman at half the weight.) When an attractive woman would be shown on TV and the men would ogle, she would say, "she's not pretty!" But then when someone like Oprah would be on, "she's pretty!" :eek:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bah ahahahaha!

Is this a trick question?

ANSWER: Women hate ALL women who look better than them.
 

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todd is right. it's jealousy. women who put on some pounds tend to say things about women who are skinny like they look malnourished or sick because they are "too skinny".
 

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Actually personally I don't like the body type portrayed in that photo.

I like 'em built for comfort not speed. I like the curves.

But that's not to say skinny birds are necessarily "unhealthy". That's just my particular taste.
 

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MatureDJ said:
Why do so many women think that slender women are "unhealthy looking"?
Because they're jealous.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I actually agree with the assessment that she looks too skinny.

Women can and do hate on others out of jealousy, but that doesn't always mean it holds true if you don't agree with it. In this case, I can see what they mean, probably because I'm not a fan of model skinny women, it doesn't do anything for me without the curves that Sparky speaks of.
 

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Bullchit...she's not too skinny!

She's not going to make it as a Venus Swimsuit Model...but...she's got a much better body than 80 percent of the women out there....that's why she's hated *(by women).
 

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Yeah 10-15lb on her would be better.

However, the women shaming her for being skinny likely think 100-150lb extra on her would still be acceptable.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jealousy is the easy answer, but the root of it is really sexual competition management. Like any good propaganda, you've got to constantly repeat the meme until the message becomes socially internalized.

"Skinny chick = unhealthy" associatively infers that "Fat chick = healthy". In reality this isn't the case because men observably sexually select for in-shape (thinner) women against out-of-shape (fatter) women with such consistency that fat women needed to construct a social meme to be able to compete. When you can't win the game, change the rules.

And for the record, I would hit it with LeAnn Rimes until she stopped moving. I read she's a sex addict.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Jealousy is the easy answer, but the root of it is really sexual competition management. Like any good propaganda, you've got to constantly repeat the meme until the message becomes socially internalized.

"Skinny chick = unhealthy" associatively infers that "Fat chick = healthy". In reality this isn't the case because men observably sexually select for in-shape (thinner) women against out-of-shape (fatter) women with such consistency that fat women needed to construct a social meme to be able to compete. When you can't win the game, change the rules.

And for the record, I would hit it with LeAnn Rimes until she stopped moving. I read she's a sex addict.
LeAnn Rimes? Really?

Think I'll go home tonight, get out the guitar and play some country music. Might start sportin' some wood! :D
 

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im seeing a girl who is slender, i cant wait to put on 10 lbs on her.
 

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I'd never post a pic of my wife on here but she's exactly what I'm attracted to.

5'5", 110 lbs, 38/24/38....I like em petite.

She get's comments all the time from fatties who most always say she's skinny. They're simply jealous and would kill to have a figure like hers. Simple.

Remember.....fat chicks are difficult to kidnap.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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meth is a hell of a drug

I'd still fvck the sh#@ out of her.
 

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There's nothing wrong with the assessment. She IS too skinny and girls ARE supposed to have 'curves.' That doesn't mean beer belly, but t!ts and @$$ are what the female form is all about IMO. If you prefer slim flat-chested model types, fine, but don't pretend there's something wrong with everyone else.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Google "Kayden Kross"

That's my girl.
Not bad except for her employment and criminal history.

I bet alot of guys wish she were his slut. :yes:
 

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When your only options are banging land-whales, every girl is "too skinny".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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